I remember when dating was fun and when you seperarated for the evening there was something to talk about. What happened to those days? I am looking to date, with the chance of finding my best friend and lover, friends first. I am fun, smart, outgoing, caring, giving, forgiving and loving. I attend church when possible, I love to entertain, enjoy backyard bbq's with my family and friends, theme parks and enjoy traveling. l like all types of music, dancing, going to the movies, concerts and comedy shows. There is no drama in my life so don't want any. If you're recently separated, going through a divorce, still in love or living with the ex, do yourself and others a favor and get off the sites. You need time. I can't believe that there are still those men in their 40s and even 50s who haven't caught on. Ill say that if you are him keep going. Good Luck!