I like a relaxed atmosphere, so I would like to start by saying that the first date would have to be a day time date. Dressing in casual jeans and nice top. Catch some late lunch maybe around 2 pm. Where we could sit and talk to get to know each other without alcohol and pressure. Being that the weather is cold and a bit gloomy it would be nice to go bowling, or the car museum. Laughter, fun, dry warmth and time to get to know one another. Being a bit old fashion I like the man to pick up the tab on the first date. I want lots of conversation, likes, dislikes, goals, interests, religion, family, friends, favorite colors, music, foods, etc... Oh and I don't kiss on the first date. Sorry!! But I am worth the wait if your the one!