I believe that peoples' first impression is what a person looks like. So let's be real you didn't really want to read my profile first or it was by pure unlucky accident. If you wouldn't walk up to me in public then don't start a conversation. Attraction is key so you might be a really nice guy but I'm not the type to lead someone on. This doesn't mean I wouldn't talk to you in public but I am not interested in dating you. Confidence makes a huge difference! So be honest about your intentions...
I indicated that I want a relationship because I'm not looking for one night stands. If we go out a couple times and like each other I would like to be considered friends. But let's face it we are on a dating web site so friends aren't what we all are looking for. I figured we all can't meet everyone we would like to. However, we have to have a connection then see what happens from there. I am not looking to have someone take care of me or me them. If you don't have motivation in life it's a big turn off. I started working out so if all you want to do is drink and smoke we probably won't have many interesting dates..
We don't have to consider it a date, I feel like I am on an interview, let's just relax and have fun! Someone that likes to go out as well as be low key. I'm not the type of girl that is going to order a salad, unless a salad is what I really want to eat. Having a couple drinks, walk downtown, play video games; take pics in a photo booth, carnival or whatever we find we have in common.