I'm just here for the buffet.....or....!
Alejandro is in jail and I have his phone and access to his POF account. My name is Lyndsey and Alejandro and I have been together since July 2015. It is has been a rewarding and challenging relationship, as relationships tend to be dynamic! I just didn't think that when you share intimacy and future plans, you keep a POF profile up?! When I looked through his phone for the first time last February, as I was looking through his texts, I saw he texted a woman introducing himself as "Alejandro from POF". I didn't know what POF stood for so I googled it. I couldn't believe it. My heart was broken. When we discussed our relationship, I said that it needed to be deleted if we were to continue in a monogous relationship. He said he would because he wants me to be his future wife. Our relationship started to get better in late March and April. But when he got arrested and put in jail early May, I went through his phone and saw he lied and was indeed still communicating on this site by making "first contacts" with women throughout the entirety of our relationships. I brought this up to him and he swears he NEVER WENT ON ONE DATE. He claims it was superficial communication and nothing happened with ANYONE! So much money on the phone calls and time and letters spent trying and begging for the truth. He still stands firm. Claims he kept the site because I didn't have the "power/authority" to "tell him what to do". I am still so torn and love him deeply for the man I know he can become. But... PLEASE LADIES! If you have any information on the intimacy level you shared with the man I thought I knew, private message me through this app please. Just message Alejandro. I am the only one using this account. I really need to know. All the old messages have been deleted so idk what he said and how he presented himself. I want to believe the best in him but it hurts to know I was being mentally cheated on throughout the entire relationship. He said it was only when we broke up. (Our breakups ups lasted one to two days max with him taking a breathe from a silly fight). Nothing series enough to use a dating site. I'm most dreading hearing if he was physically intimate with anyone. LADIES, I need honesty and kindness please. I have a great big heart and feel strongly that I need to know these answers. THANK YOU FOR YOUR TIME. GOSH, just look below...that doesn't sound like a man that is happy in this relationship with me. He had a secret life it appears. He has all these promises for me when he gets out. I'm wondering if it's worth waiting for.
I can be very serious when neccesary, but I prefer to be naked when not neccessary.
I work in sales for a home improvement contractor. I also promote concerts and work with several companies and venues doing production and marketing work. I am working towards taking the leap into running a full time production company.
I'm looking for someone to pass the time with... what little spare time I have. Hopefully cute, witty, nice butt, good kisser... but I don't judge - I'm flexible.
I would love to find a girl with her own life who is ambitious and motivated. Hit me up when you feel like taking a time-out from the hustle and bustle.
I love to snowboard with beautiful women. Something about girls in snow pants. Meow.
I gets DOWN in the kitchen.
I'm addicted to bass. Low frequency, not fish, but those are great too.
Music is my floatation device in the great flood we call life so I cling to it with all I've got. Nietzsche once said, "Without music, life would be a mistake."
I will jam out to anything but especially love electronic and funk music. Also really like old school alternative/metal. I grew up on classical and country so I have a pretty wide foundation. Likely playlist: Flume, Disclosure, Sublime, Ice Cube, Pink Floyd, Excision, RHCP, Disclosure, Joe Walsh, The Floozies, Pantera, Kaskade. I have way too many favorites to list them so if you are a musicphile too, lets wax poetic on tastes.
I like to go to music festivals of all genres and locales. I would like to go to Outlook Festival, Minus 424 in the next few years. I will be at Burning Man every year. I will get married there. I hope you are with that.
I hate sarcasm.
I hate people that say they hate things.. And I hate when my foot falls asleep during the day, because then it stays up all night.
I love sarcasm.
My profile purposely sucks at the beginning to weed out those who have a short attention span or can't read. If you can read, and you read the whole thing, and you still think it sucks, then you're stupid and ugly anyway. Just kidding. I would never judge someone just because they are stupid and ugly.
I love being outdoors winter or summer and enjoy the whole outdoor experience. There is a perfect spot in the world at any given time. Part of the fun is finding it.
I love to snowboard and wakeboard. Tahoe is where you might find me.
I love the smell of race gas.
Grew up with horses, so if they are around then we should ride them.
Love leads all my actions. LLAMA.
I am not going to limit a potential relationship with someone by pre-determining the extent of my desires. It all starts with a hello. If there is more, the progression will be natural.
Karma is real, but forget about it and pay it forward because it feels good... not getting creamed by a train in a freak accident is just a bonus ;)
I work extremely well under pressure. Read: procrastination master.
I love EDM... techno, deep house, tech house, electro, dubstep, downtempo, trance, experimental... I like it all.
I like classic literature and philosophy from all cultures.
I read and reread everything from Hemingway to Steinbeck to Rand to Vonnegut to Pasternak to Nietzsche to Thompson. Books kick ass.
Art and creativity is definitely a turn on.
I love to cook but also enjoy it when you cook. Or we eat out. I just love food.
I eat like nine times on a slow day. Can't seem to get enough calories. This is not indicative of my physical proportion... I am pretty healthy and fit. I would love to run a marathon with you. As long as you feed me.
On second thought, I may have a tapeworm.
I really enjoy what I do and I feel like I have not worked a single day of my life. I am fortunate to be able I make a living and do what I love.
I am super busy and always on the move but will always make time for those who are important in my life.
I think learning stuff is awesome. Teach me.
I think most tv is for idiots.
I do like to watch movies though.
I am a perpetual risk taker. I love to do stuff that gets my pulse racing.
Something involving two or more mutual interests seems to make sense, i.e. brunch and boarding, lunch and l'art galerie, dinner and dancing, etc...
Like I said, it's really easy to have fun with me. As long as my date doesn't have the personality of a grapefruit or smell bad or something, we're gonna have a good time.
I'm a huge fan of spontaneity so sometimes we just wing it and see where we end up.
Brownie points if you can shuffle.