I’m the kind of girl you’ll never want to let go of. I’m looking for a man who “takes his time” getting to know me. I don’t want anything to be rushed. It should be something that we both feel and anticipate. I want us to be mentally, spiritually, physically and emotionally attracted to one another first so that when we do share that special moment, it’s NOT just meaningless sex; it’s the bomb!!! : )
I’m very goal-oriented, kind, honest, loyal, Kardashian curvy, funny, sensual, optimistic, competitive and I like having fun. I have an immense amount of faith in God and believe that positivity and perseverance will get you through most things. My faith is not church based; I'm not a holy roller and don't preach or condemn others. I'm flawed like most people so I guess that makes me normal..lol. I just have more of a positive outlook on life because I don't worry about the things I can't change. I enjoy playing pool (cuz I'm good at it!), camping, fishing, working out, working with kids, dancing, live music, and going for drives and walks. I have a beautiful bright ambitious talented 18 year old daughter and a cute dog. My heart is too big most of the time, which has led me to make poor choices with the relationships I've been in in the past. This time I’m putting it out there what I want,,,choosing with my head and heart and hopefully God answers my prayers : )
THE KIND OF MAN I WOULD LIKE TO MEET : )
I would like to at least once in my lifetime to be with a guy who works, drives, has his own place (rents or owns), makes as much money as I do (which isn’t much), doesn’t call me names, looks good standing next to me, has faith in God and makes me feel special...and if I'm being honest, physical/sexual attraction has to be there. If I can't picture myself having sex with you, then there won't be a second date...sorry,,just being honest. With that being said, there must also be a strong friendship and mutual respect for one another to make a relationship work. I also think it’s super sweet when a guy opens the door for me, offers to pay most of the time and at least tries to refrain from using constant vulgarity/profanity in front of me and just women in general…save it for your boys! I don’t have a potty mouth, can’t stand drama, don’t name call, I’m not a liar, I’m not a cheater and I don’t play games…straight up..what you see is what you get : )
I’m physically attracted to men who are taller than me..at least 2-3” taller or more and I like manly masculine men. I’m definitely NOT attracted to the metro type. If you have any gay tendencies, I’m out!!! I like men around my age 35-46 years old. I think it’s way hot when guys have tats and are sweet and gentlemanly like on the inside. I like men who are somewhat laid back (not lazy) and down to Earth. I’m pretty much the same way…very down to Earth. I rarely drink…sometimes it can be fun, but I don’t want to date a guy who lives at the bar. I like different types of music..mostly rock, hip hop, old school rap and other types, but I can’t stand country music!!! I’m NEVER gonna cowboy up. If you listen to country, I'm probably not your type. I was born and raised in L.A. Cali,. but have lived in Oregon for 16 years and love it here. I understand that physical attraction is a big part of a relationship. Believe me..I want that too! I also understand that my pics are somewhat sexy so I apologize if it sends a mixed message about getting to know me first, but that’s a part of who I am…a good girl on the inside who happens to be sexy and I don’t apologize for that ; )). I don’t have any pics of me having fun on my profile because I work two part-time jobs (weekdays only) and workout afterwards 3-4 days a week, plus I’m looking for someone to create fun pics with. It would be great to find someone with a similar schedule…weekends off!!
And finally, if you’re married or even separated...please don’t contact me at all. My profile does not say “Actively seeking a married man.” ; ( got my heart broken..not looking forward to it happening again.
Sweet dreams…Jodi : )