I have been on this site for a while going on dates with men in hopes of finding a man who would see the beauty within me rather than only focusing on my my outer beauty....to fall in love with me. You would not believe how difficult it has been to find a man who takes his time getting to know me as a person so he can have me all the time and call me his girl : ) I am in love with Greg Messer, and I don't how how to delete my profile. I apologize for misleading any nice guys, but if someone can please tell me how to delete my profile, I would greatly appreciate it.
I’m new to the Portland area, and I'm hoping to meet some attractive, friendly, intelligent, respectful men who are interested in getting to know a girl before getting to know me sexually. I want to meet men as friends, and if we get along as friends and there's chemistry between us then we will go on another date and see what transpires from there : ) I have a lot of men who want to date me, which is helping me to be more selective. I'm NOT interested in dating men who smoke, have a drinking problem, cuss a lot or call girls names. I like men who are gentlemen, who are secure...not jealous! Be confident...BE A MAN...THAT'S SEXY!!!
I work hard to stay in shape, and am looking for a man who is in shape as well...decent shape anyways : ) I am definitely NOT looking to have casual sex with the men I decide to meet. I respect myself as well as my future partner to NOT give it up to every man I meet. If ur looking to have sex right away, I'm not ur girl. I'm looking for my equal...and ultimately to fall in love with the man of my dreams! Finding a person to share your life with does not begin with sex, so the one who wins my heart will be somewhat patient in getting to know me...and then HE will be the one who gets all of me...heart, mind, body and soul : ) I'm a gud woman...I'm 100% certain of that, and I'm not settling for less than I deserve : )
I'm laid back and can be a little shy and quiet at first. I'm very honest and loyal to a fault. If you lie to me about anything (pics, age, height, weight, your intentions...anything)...sorry there will not be a second date. I like to workout, dance, sing, shoot pool, go camping, go shopping and I enjoy spending time with family and friends. I'm a huge fan of music, but I mostly listen to Beyonce,Jhene Aiko, Drake and other sexy dance/hip hop rap music...lol. I absolutely love my daughter more than anything in the world : ) She's the reason we moved to Portland. She is going to school at Marylhurst University. I'm a very proud mom!!!
THE KIND OF MAN I WOULD LIKE TO MEET : )
I would like to be with a guy who works, who is in shape (not really attracted to heavyset men) a man who drives and has his act together. I'm attracted to tall men..at least 5'10 or more with a sense of style. I'm not into the redneck country boy. I can't stand country music. I'M NEVER GONNA COWBOY UP! I would like to be with a man who is liked by people, who looks good standing next to me, has faith in God and makes me feel special...and if I'm being honest, physical attraction MUST be there...sorry,,just being real. With that being said, there should also be a strong friendship and mutual respect for one another to make a relationship work.
I like manly masculine men. I’m definitely NOT attracted to the metro type. I like a man who takes care of himself..works out, dresses nice and showers regularly. I like men around my age 35-46 years old. I tend to have more in common with men who are slightly younger or my age. I look young, act young, feel young and most of my friends are younger too. I like men who are somewhat laid back (not lazy) and down to Earth. I think it’s way hot when guys have tats and are sweet and know how to be a gentleman. I rarely drink…sometimes it can be fun, but I don’t want to date a guy who lives at the bar. Similar music interest is very important to me. How can I say..What up G to a cowboy...lol. I was born and raised in L.A. Cali,. but have lived in Oregon for 18 years and love it here. I'm a good girl so don't message me if you're looking for a booty call!
And finally, If you're on here to play games..mess with girls because it's your hobby, then please don't message me. Also, if you’re married or even separated...please don’t contact me at all. My profile does not say “Actively seeking a married man.” ; ( got my heart broken..not looking forward to it happening again. Be honest about EVERYTHING..can't stress that enough : )
Sweet dreams…Jodi : )
Conversation Starters (i.e. what you'd like to do on a first date...)
Just getting to know each other..something casual where we could talk..maybe dinner or playing pool... something where we could both be ourselves with no added pressure.