I've been on POF almost 2 yrs now. Only once have I met someone worthy of me. It didn't work out after 11 months. But a lot of you are fake as hell. I have met many guys on here and have gone on date after date. It never works out. I feel as if some of you get your hopes up. STOP having too high of expectations of people u meet online. That's so stupid. You don't get anywhere with that. I know I'm an awesome chick. I'm real. I'm honest. I'm faithful. Im cool with just about anyone. I get along with just about anyone and I'm very easy to talk to.
Secondly, I don't lie to people. If you actually read my profile you can see it says I am "a few extra pounds!" Meaning I am a pretty thick girl. I do not believe I'm super huge or fat. Now yes I was bigger months ago but I have been working on losing my pregnancy baby weight. I had twins and got pretty big. I weighed 230 lbs in June 2014. I now weigh 179 lbs. At 5'3. My next goal is to be down to 140 by Jan 1st. I'm not one of those people who say I'm gonna workout then don't. I'm pretty determined and motivated unlike most people. Now I've met many awesome guys who have seen my profile and we go out and seems like a great time then I never hear from them again knowing its because of my weight and they're just shallow. They say I'm beautiful, gorgeous, & think I'm an awesome girl. But end up being shallow as hell even knowing I workout and I'm doing my thing. I know how great I look and feel when I'm at my pre pregnancy weight... So if your shallow and can't handle me then move alone. Im sick of guys wasting my time with their pathetic bullshit. If u want to cuddle with a twig be my guest.
More importantly I am a mom. I have 3 children. Wanted 2 but got a buy 1 get 1 free offer considering I had twins. My children mean the world to me. My children will always come first in my life no matter what.
Also, after having fraternal twins the rate of having twins again or more like quads etc... Is higher. So I got my tubes tied. I really don't want to have anymore kids ever. So that kinda ruins things for me. Some guys want their own kids. It is what it is. I'm looking for a guy more or less with his own kids, and not looking to have anymore. That would be perfect for me.
I am looking for someone serious... So if u have on your profile not looking for anything serious or casual dating meaning u probably just want to be **** buddies with everyone online please move along. Also if you are younger than me it usually doesn't work... Mostly because your immaturity level sucks. If ur 23 going to school and no kids and can party every weekend with some job at panda express what makes you think I would want to talk to you. Seriously... Why would u want to get serious with a chick with 3 kids?? I wasn't ready for kids then... So I know damn well your not. Don't waste my time or yours.
Also, I have my own apt. My own truck. And run my own businesses as well as work. I'm a single mom just trying to make it and provide for my kids. My kids do have a dad in their life. Granted he's not the best.... But he is there. So therefore I'm not looking for another baby daddy. But am looking for someone who's serious and can love me. I am looking to settle down again, I miss it. I would like to complete my family. But don't expect that from anyone.
I am a pretty awesome chick. I'd do just about anything for my man when I have one, as long as he treats me right. I'm a firm believer in respect and loyalty. Be nice, get nice. Be mean, get mean.
Im a pretty cool chick and was raised right in many ways. I have a firm relationship with god so if ur not a believer just keep your comments to yourself, and so will I. I'm not gonna throw a bible down your throat. I like to cook and bake. Also do photography as a hobby. I'm a country girl at heart and always have been. I also like being outdoors, whether its going fishing, or hiking, and sometimes camping. I like sitting around a fire, being on the lake or going muddin. I love to dance, and throw a few cold ones back but I also love to get dressed up and go out. Im also fine with laying around, grilling during the day and cuddling on the couch watching a movie. I am kinda a clean freak so being a messy person isn't my thing.... I will not clean up after you. That's childish... I got my own pack to take care of. I'm not looking to date another child.
I don't believe in cheating and think its disgusting. Big kuddos to you single dads with full custody! You have my most and ultimate respect! Amen for fathers like you!
Im probably one of the most realest loyal females you will ever meet and I'm sick of being screwed over. I'm not shallow I can find a good heart in just about anyone. So don't be shy. But granted even though I'm not shallow there still has to be some attraction there.
I really want to find someone serious and sick of all the fake yuppies on here. I'm ready to be serious again. I'm not looking to hop, skip, & jump into anything too soon.... But definitely wanting someone to be around so when the times right, its perfect. I think I deserve that. If you are sick of women playing games with you, or lying to you, or cheating on you... Then your best bet is to get with someone like me. I'm also pretty real, and blunt even. I'm not afraid to speak my mind. I know what I want. Give me a chance and I promise you won't be disappointed.