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I'm a fairly well-rounded individual. Bullet point interests are listed on my profile, with so much more not yet mentioned.
The first thing people usually notice about me… my nimbus. It has to be my nimbus.
I'm on here hoping there's someone worth writing all this down for. My friends have described me as a bit of a comedic carousel and the most all-around real person you'll ever meet. I have the ability to be handy with a wrench and I've always wanted to own a mechanics jumper suit. I'm working on being worldly. I tan without burning. I'm passionate and inquisitive. I dream exclusively in color. I have limited materialistic desires. Once I knew the meaning of life, but I forgot to write it down. When I leave the Zoo, I start running towards the parking lot screaming ‘run for your life, they’re loose!’ Sometimes I get a good beat going in my head and my head starts bobbing and body starts grooving. *laughs*
I’m a lover not a fighter, but I can get frosty with the best of them. I hold cowboy morals in high standing and don’t have much tolerance for games, half-truths, or bullshitake. Respecting people is a reflection of your personal integrity. When it comes to desires of the heart... I’m usually slow to warm up to people but when I do it’s for the long haul.
I’m an active gal, too sweet to be used for brick mortar, too salty to be eaten by the ants, not yet old enough to hang up my Halloween costumes, and not young enough to date 23 year olds (seriously, you'd have to be an old soul…). I believe my personality is predominately defined by my overwhelming curiosity. Honesty and communication are very important to me - such rare gems these days along with common sense.
You should message me if…. something I've written below: resonates with you:
It seems our generation is pretty horrible at finding love, although most seem to not even be actively looking for such a connection and/or seriously down-playing their desires to actually find that person that they connect with so thoroughly. I believe that there is a false belief that women are just hunting around to pin down a man. *laughs* I find this comical... because who would want to be in a long-term relationship with someone who was "pinned down" and didn't truly WANT to be there... A lot of people have it all wrong. Chivalry's not dead and there's a lot of points/kudos to be had in communication and respecting a person enough to simply say that there's no fire/connection between you and move on with class. *Enter Harvey Specter* Hahaha
I get that it can be pretty terrifying to let yourself be emotionally vulnerable... it's far easier to simply communicate via text ALL the time, but is that truly what you would want in a life partner? Lying in bed next to one another.. texting. *laughs* Tell me that's not scarily funny... Never making yourself vulnerable protects you against rejections sure.. but that type of security is just glorified loneliness. You're building brick walls against the kinds of experiences and emotions that come from allowing yourself to care deeply for another person. It's time to speak in full sentences people. *smiles*
I'm looking for someone I can share my fears, doubts and vulnerabilities with. I'm looking for a true friendship.. to fight and ride side-by-side through both the good/bad and the ugly... and in turn find a true partner. I'm hoping to provide this same foundation for someone as well. To share in each other's successes.
If you are looking for a friend FIRST and will not be disappointed if all you get is a friend, you are low on drama and high on energy, you have a scar on your knee or maybe even your elbow from way back when you were little, you value intellectual pursuit, you want to stare at a wall and find shapes in the texture that look like stuff while sipping a mimosa, you speak sweet words but know naughty ones too, you prefer sleeping under the stars to tearing up the club, you like dogs, you can man up and be a bit of a sweetheart type, you are not afraid of a little dirt but still excited to throw on some shiny shoes and a pair of suspenders when the occasion arises, you are a ninja warrior (real or make-believe), you would be completely up for a day trip in the elements (ocean, river, forest, etc), you like cooking or at least will attempt to cook now and again, you are defined as a person but looking to grow, you like to spoon, you’re always looking for a challenge of the spirit, you like to sit under the ol’ oak tree, you want to catch crawdads in the creek, you are competitive yet compassionate, you want to paint a picture together, or you are looking for a solid team. *flex*
I whole-heartedly welcome a complimentary counterpart.
Let the shenanigans begin.... *fist pump*
In reality it will probably start over coffee/tea/hot chocolate... maybe a happy hour and a quick appetizer. However, there is always potential to go spiff-tacular! I mean who doesn't want to have a FABULOUS FIRST TIME STORY! If chemistry is good we might as well hop on in and blow some bubbles, but it all depends on "us."
Serendipity. (I like this word). Look for something, find something else, and realize that what you've found is more suited to your needs than what you thought you were looking for.