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I'm a fairly well-rounded individual. Bullet point interests are listed on my profile, with so much more not yet mentioned.
I'm on here hoping there's someone worth writing all this down for, but I'm not taking online dating too seriously. Having dozens of options at our fingertips these days for dating is a complete double-edged sword... There are more and more casual acquaintances and fewer and fewer concrete connections. The hook-up culture is convenient for people who aren't looking to seriously date, but quite discouraging to those of us who want something far more meaningful. I get that it can be pretty terrifying to let yourself be emotionally vulnerable... it's far easier to simply communicate via text ALL the time, but is that truly what you would want in a life partner? Lying in bed next to one another.. texting. *laughs* Tell me that's not scarily funny... It's time to speak in full sentences people. *smiles* --Enter Harvey Specter-- Hahaha I digress..
The first thing people usually notice about me… my nimbus. It has to be my nimbus. My friends have described me as a bit of a comedic carousel and the most all-around real person you'll ever meet. I have the ability to be handy with a wrench and I've always wanted to own a mechanics jumper suit. I'm working on being worldly. I tan without burning. I'm passionate and inquisitive. I dream exclusively in color. I have limited materialistic desires. I’m a lover not a fighter, but I can get frosty with the best of them. I hold cowboy morals in high standing and don’t have much tolerance for games, half-truths, or bullshitake. Respecting people is a reflection of your personal integrity. When it comes to desires of the heart... I’m usually slow to warm up to people but when I do it’s for the long haul.
I’m an active gal, too sweet to be used for brick mortar, too salty to be eaten by the ants, not yet old enough to hang up my Halloween costumes, and not young enough to date 23 year olds (seriously, you'd have to be an old soul…). I believe my personality is predominately defined by my overwhelming curiosity. Honesty and communication are very important to me - such rare gems these days along with common sense.
You should message me if…. something I've written below resonates with you:
I am looking for someone who already has a full life. I am hoping to find a man to complement my full and already fulfilling life and I hope to provide the same for him. I have thrown myself into advancing my career again and I'm swamped, but I always make time for the important things in life. I've only ever been in one serious relationship so I'm a bit nervous on this whole "real-deal" bit.. I don't have a lot of practice.. I haven't made all my rookie mistakes yet!
If you are looking for a friend FIRST and will not be disappointed if all you get is a friend, you are low on drama and high on energy, you have a scar on your knee or maybe even your elbow from way back when you were little, you value intellectual pursuit, you want to stare at a wall and find shapes in the texture that look like stuff while sipping a mimosa, you speak sweet words but know naughty ones too, you prefer sleeping under the stars to tearing up the club, you like dogs, you can man up and be a bit of a sweetheart type, you are not afraid of a little dirt but still excited to throw on some shiny shoes and a pair of suspenders when the occasion arises, you are a ninja warrior (real or make-believe), you would be completely up for a day trip in the elements (ocean, river, forest, etc) or overnight snuggling by the campfire, you like cooking or at least will attempt to cook now and again, you are defined as a person but looking to grow, you like to spoon, you’re always looking for a challenge of the spirit, you like to sit under the ol’ oak tree, you want to catch crawdads in the creek (yes, I'm a little bit country), you are competitive yet compassionate, you want to paint a picture together, or you are looking for a solid team. *flex*
I whole-heartedly welcome a complementary counterpart.
Let the shenanigans begin.... *fist pump*
In reality it will probably start over coffee/tea/hot chocolate... maybe a happy hour and a quick appetizer. However, there is always potential to go spiff-tacular! I mean who doesn't want to have a FABULOUS FIRST TIME STORY! If chemistry is good we might as well hop on in and blow some bubbles, but it all depends on "us."
Serendipity. (I like this word). Look for something, find something else, and realize that what you've found is more suited to your needs than what you thought you were looking for.