If you are not willing to get to know me, and share about yourself, don't waste my time. I want someone in my life again, but I am not desperate. I am not a one-night stand kind of girl, but I am not looking to get married again either. I just want someone new in my life, that takes me as I am. I am a good person, a good friend with a good loyal heart who puts everybody before me. I want to meet someone who does not take advantage of that...ARE you out there? No leeches, or mommas boys, and NO I will not loan you money so don't ask.
Single mom successfully survived a messy divorce where my thoughts and feelings never mattered.....I have nothing to offer but ME. I am a good person with a huge heart, and lots of loyalty. So I am going to be brutally honest, if you have not run screaming yet from my page......then read on.
I have one 16 year old son that looks just like his dead-bead dad. He is the best kid, he took me target shooting for Mothers' day (had to explain the dead squirrel picture..LOL!) I love my son to death and no one will come before him. I am all right with any children you have, and I would never ask you to choose between them or me.
I am ready to find my someone, someone who loves me for me, someone who wants to be part of my life and I part of theirs. I don't need to be put on a pedestal, but I do have to matter. I don't need anything but love, but I will not work my ass off to support a leach.....So I hope it is as simple as I think it is. I know somewhere out there is the right person for everyone, might you be mine! Please do not bother responding if you still live with your Mother ( I can understand staying with her till you find a new place, or even her living with you to take care of her, but NO still attached at the umbilical cord Momma's boys please.)
Update: Yes I would love the above statement to be true, but also okay with dating as long as you would be willing to only date one person at a time. Feel free to ask me why and I will tell you, just not going to share with everyone....LOL! thanks for understanding.
Must not be a judge a book by its cover kind of person. I will admit I am in the worse shape of my life.....I am working on that, already 10 pounds down, but I will always have Curves (T and A...LOL!)
Obviously after the getting to know each other step, you must love to snuggle.....I am a big cuddle freak, nothing is more calming then laying down listening to the sound of my mans heart beat, even if we are just watching TV in bed....I am known to chase my man across the bed just to snuggle, so might as well snuggle back and not be on the edge of the bed.
So I think all my skeletons are out of the closet, so you were warned.......I am lots of fun in general and I think the fun more then makes up for the flaws. I have a ridiculous need to make people around me happy, all I want is someone to do it back to me. I recently hurt myself really bad, so while healing my movement is limited to short distances, but if I can sit and participate I love to, or at this point I don't mind watching all the kids have the fun.
So if you think you are up for it, send me a message, ask me a question, tell me something about you.......I don't bite.....maybe only nibble ;)
Who knows......Have not done much first dates (my last first date, we broke into a state park after hours to watch the meteoroid shower....it was great!) but something fun like pool or darts is cool. But also up for a laid back dinner and conversation (not really a fancy dinner kind of gal)...Be creative...I do like adventure, and even a little mischief......