**********I get contacted often by guys who are "separated" and guys who have "non-religious" in their profile. I will only correspond with guys who are currently not married. I am also looking for a guy who is a Christian.*********
Big changes in my life right now. I am buying a house. Yes I do know alot of women own homes but how many of them did it without the help of an ex whether that was through child support, maintenance or got it in the divorce. I have gotten nothing from any man so this is all on me baby! :) I am so excited. This is my second house. I had one when I lived in Saint Louis but this is the first one in Springfield. I can't wait to not be a renter any longer!! This being said... I am very busy trying to finalize getting into this house. I close mid-May and then I will be moving, painting, yard work and all the other great things that come with home ownership. I may not get back to you very fast on here or have time to meet right away but I am interested in meeting someone to share my new life with. You know what they say...All good things come to those who wait. :)
I am looking for a good Christian man who is loyal, honest, trustworthy, trusting, faithful, who likes to talk sweetly to the woman he is with, and who I find attractive. He must be a hard worker and preferably educated. Please no dead beats… I do expect a guy to open doors, pull out chairs, gently guide me through a crowd room and most of all who will show me respect and honor my wish to wait to be intimate until we are in love with each other and committed in our relationship. If you are looking for a one night stand look elsewhere.
I work out 3 to 5 times a week. I am early to bed early to rise and I like my life that way. I like to take long walks with my dog, sight see, explore the area, hang out or just watch a movie. I am mostly a homebody and I like to go out only about once a week to something low key unless it is to do one of the aforementioned activities.
I am not into hanging out at bars, although I went to Ernie Biggs Piano Bar recently and with the no smoking in Springfield bars it was a great experience. I don’t drink however I don’t mind if my partner does on occasion. I also don’t smoke and do not like being around smokers….
This will probably get me hate mail but here goes. I think it is great that your kids are the most important things in your life however your kids are going to grow up or maybe they already have and you will need to have your own life and your own relationships. It is a real turn off when I am made to feel like I am the least important thing in a guys life... behind kids, ex, career, friends, and sports.... I have ended relationships for this very reason. I want to at least feel like I am important even if that isn't really the case. If you have to fake that the woman in your life is important do it. I hate to hear that "my daughter isn't accepting that I am dating someone" or "my son is going to be there this weekend so I can't talk to you on the phone or see you this weekend". I don't have kids and kind of feel like I am being burdened with someone else's kids only I don't get any of the good stuff that goes along with kids. If you are unable to make yourself and the person you are seeing a priority then you are definitely not the guy for me. Don't get me wrong, I love kids but not when a man uses the kids as an excuse to not have a healthy adult relationship. OK... come on with the hate mail... I can take it.. LOL