I am a divorced woman looking for an exclusive, long-term, solid relationship with a divorced/widowed man who has got his act together, is honest, able to follow through with a plan, is able to communicate and be open and doesn't mind spending quality time with me doing fun things!!!
I am a music educator for NYCDOE with 3 1/2 mos. left til retirement...contemplating what shall I do in my next life??
I enjoy paddleball (that's right..a city sport), skiing water n snow, beaches, travelling, concerts, hiking, waterfalls, flea markets, festivals, dinners, movies...the usual stuff. Also like a quiet evening at home with that someone special..maybe glass of wine by fireplace?
So if you must know, what kind of man I'm looking for?? Well as a woman in this day and age, I am in a position to ask a man "what can you do for me that I can't do for myself??" I pay my own bills, I take care of my household without the help of any man, or woman for that matter. I am in the position to ask " what can YOU bring to the table?" I am not referring to $$; I need something more.
I need a man who is striving for excellence in every aspect of life.
I need someone who is striving for excellence mentally because I need conversation and mental stimulation. I don't need a simple-minded man.
I need someone who is striving for excellence spiritually because I don't need to be unequally yoked...believers mixed with unbelievers is a recipe for disaster.
I need a man who is striving for excellence financially because I don't need a financial burden.
I need someone who is sensitive enough to understand what I go through as a woman but strong enough to keep me grounded.
I need someone who has integrity in dealing with relationships; lies and game-playing are not my idea of a strong man.
I need a man who is family oriented; one who can be the leader, priest and provider to the lives entrusted to him by God.
I need someone whom I can respect. In order to be submissive, I must respect him.
I cannot be submissive to a man who isn't taking care of his business. I have no problem being submissive...he just has to be worthy.
And by the way, I am not looking for him...he will find me. He will recognize himself in me. He may not be able to explain the connection, but he will always be drawn to me.
God made woman to be a "help-mate" for man; I can't help a man if he can't help himself! I may be asking for a lot but I'm worth it!!
Prefer over 5"10" and in decent shape and DEF. NO SMOKERS NO DRUGS D/D CLEAN