***HEADS UP***: I think I have to be honest before you continue to read my Profile. I'm 38 and therefore I'm not new to the dating scene or long term relationships. I can tell when someone's being a Puffer Fish- which they lie and exaggerate their Profile to be more appealing but the truth proves them to be otherwise. I'm interested in making new friends, hanging out and having fun with people with similar interests and possibly meeting someone special here. I am *not*, however, interested in meaningless hookups. So, if that's your main intention, I am not your gal.
Oh, and guys, since this is a virtual dating site, everyone relies on Words (age, height & intentions) and Pictures (recent pics or at least state the year)- So PLEASE BE HONEST with your postings. Or at least, do me the favor of COMING CLEAN about your real age and your pics not being recent THE FIRST TIME you send me a message. It matters to those who are serious in meeting someone special and to those trying to meet new friends.
THANK YOU for the overwhelming emails from a simple Hi to the novel writers :) Please accept my apologies, in advance, for I am only responding to the selective few that somehow sparks my interest. But rest assure, I am deeply flattered and humbled for the compliments and for "taking the time" to reach out- instead of just adding me as your "Favorite" or clicking "want to meet you button" ;)
PLEASE FEEL FREE TO LEAVE ME A VOICE MESSAGE :) (If you don't have this feature yet, that means your POF app needs to be updated)
ME in a nutshell:
I'm a very transparent Gemini who enjoys witty banters, stimulating conversations, never boring, funny, witty, can be a ball buster (in a funny way ;), not your typical LA Girl (I know now what that means having moved here 2.5 years ago), health conscious, very generous of my time (especially towards the people I love), honest, loyal, nurturer, independent, minimalist, kind and helpful to others. There's not a day that I don't seek a purpose that will somehow make a difference in someone's life.
I love music, film, fashion, dancing & the influence and power of the Arts. I'm at awe with children's innocence, the wisdom of the elders & the loyalty of animals. Boredom is my kryptonite. Music either sets my mood or expresses the mood I'm in. I enjoy class and sophistication. Dressing up is not about brand names or price tag- it's about looking good and flaunting it with elegance and poise. I have deep appreciation for art, historic buildings or places. I love the soothing sound of strings such as violin and cello along with the accompaniment of piano. I also enjoy the sound of the rain, the splashing sound the ocean waves make and children's laughter. Most of all, my faith in God that sustains me.
What I'm sending out to the Universe as far as Relationships go:
I have been through my fair share of heartaches and lessons both in life and in love. But it's not how many times you fail that matters, it's the thought of not ever giving up and trust that when the timing is right, when you least expect, that person meant for you will show up. I truly believe that you cannot stop what's meant to be and you cannot force what's not.
Being in a happy and healthy relationship is the only alternative for me, this time around. I like to laugh too much to sit around being sad. I realize that no one is perfect, but I don't think asking for those qualities in a person is too demanding, and neither should you.
Oh, and these kinda vids makes me all emotional because there are a lot of people who tend to overlook and not appreciate the simple things in life- which others would only dream of having:
The Ideal Guy For Me (based on who I truly get along with):
Has a gentle face, a beautiful smile whose eyes are like windows to their soul with a big, honest & sincere generous heart.
A guy with a witty personality, fit body, a guy who practices having a great well being (mind, body, soul), have a deep sense of spirituality and respect for nature, someone who is emotionally available and stable, optimist and understands the Law of Attraction.
Must Love Dogs and Movies.
Familiar with toothpaste and deodorant (great hygiene)
Confident but "not" arrogant
Bonus: if you're musically inclined and can dance.
And did I mention, SMART, WITTY, and FUNNY :)
***But then again, TRUE LOVE supersedes all these ideals and score cards we created in our heads. All you can do is to take a chance and ROLL WITH IT when it comes:)
Current Fave Quote: "Life is about courage and going into the Unknown" - from the Secret Life of Walter Mitty
Proposals I will decline:
Friends with Benefits
To be someone’s fling or muse
Someone who is not honest about their pictures, their height, their age and/or their intentions
My Current Fave Song: http://youtu.be/pY9b6jgbNyc