About me - Well, I love my life, my kids (grown), my grandson, and my pets (a dog and 2 birds). I love to hike, play kickball, volleyball, cards, dominoes, pool, darts, etc.... I am a happy go lucky gal who believes in live and let live. I am quite confident and not looking for anyone to "complete me." I don't drink, but am fine if you do. I don't smoke and believe in your right to do so, but, I won't be dating you if you use nicotine. This includes smokeless tobacco and pot. I am 420 friendly, but have learned that me and a toker do not a relationship make. If your pics are more than a year old, IDC if your ex is in them, I want to see what you look like today. We all want to look our best on this site, but lets face it, I'm not dating you from 10 years ago, so let me see the product you are wanting me to buy. If your pictures do not represent the current you, our first date will be our last.
I am not interested in a long distance relationship (I only date men who live in the springs), or in having a pen pal. This is a dating site, so if you write to me, I will assume you are interested. If I am not, I will tell you so. Please do not try to convince me to give you a try. I like what I like, and don't what I don't. I can't help what I am attracted to. I will be respectful enough not to waste your time. Please be respectful enough, to move on if I ask you to.
I am looking for a man between the ages of 34-58 who is happy, active*, loves animals and is single. Being attractive is a plus, but, cliché as it sounds, I am more interested in personality and compatibility than looks. That being said, if you are obese, your personality is not what I am looking for (as you don't fit the active requirement), so please, don't waste either of our time. My kids are grown and I can't have any more, but I am open to someone with younger children. I am still young enough at heart, and active enough to handle being around them. I am looking for a relationship and I'd love to find one to last the rest of my life. But, I am in no rush.
If you are still here, then, by all means, drop me a line. But please don't freak out if I don't reply right away. I live a busy life and don't get on here every day. If you haven't read my profile and are simply writing to me because you like my photos, you are wasting your time. I'm am uninterested in your type. But, of course, you won;t know that because you didn't read this. LOL
*clarification of active - I am looking for a gentleman who will be up to doing a 5k with me at least once a month (at least once a week would be ideal). One who either wants to join me on my sports teams, or plays on his own. A gentleman who enjoys both being physically active and playing cards/board games. Think there aren't many out there? There probably aren't. But I am only looking for one. :-)
I guess that would depend on the two of us. I'd prefer something casual. Some place where we can have fun while being able to have a conversation. I would prefer something active, like a hike, bowling, or disc golf. But I'm open to a meal in a quiet restaurant where we can talk.