MY INTERESTS: LOVE TAKING CARE OF MY LITL GIRL (being a full-time parent), GOING TO COLLEGE (full-time), love kids & ALL animals/species (without other creatures life would be boring), going to the coast/ocean (fav-Rockland area), ponds & lakes, swimming, boating, camping (no tents!), bon fires, cook-outs, flea markets/lawn sales/auctions, traveling, site-seeing, parks (amusement/playground), fairs (fav-Fryeburg), concerts (in/outdoor, in particular-country music), movies (comedy/action-at home & cinemas), theaters (plays/comedy acts), art galleries, museums, LOVE to go out to eat at many types of restaurants, mud runs, 4-wheelin, drag racing, muscle cars (fav-69 SS Chevelle with SS Cragar rims...) & on/off road jacked-up mud trucks (fav-78 Short bed Chevy truck (single cab) with 35's...), utilizing my creativity, reading (magazines, newspapers, articles, books-choose your own story (kid), true-life crime, non-fiction/fiction mysteries (murder, crime, bank hoists, espionage...), arts & crafts, painting, drawing, cooking/baking/eating food, cleaning/organizing/puttering, household chores, music (listening/singing-country/rock/pop/alternative), singing (taking lessons currently) & so much more...just ask: )
ABOUT MYSELF: I have three grown children: two daughters (22 & 20) & one son (19) from a previous 11 yr. relationship, to which they all live with their dad, who is a very good man that I have a lot of respect for & get along with very well & a 2013 New Year's baby girl from a previous almost 4 1/2 yr. unhealthy relationship, to say the very least, I have never been married (not a priority on my list, I guess), I do not drink alcohol, smoke cigs, & I have NEVER done/used a drug in my entire life (I WILL NOT compromise on the use of any illegal drugs, but prescribed okay), I have 5 cats, I'm somewhat educated (i.e the things I've typed, my correct spelling of words (some shorthand & the structure of my sentences), I choose to go to church even though I am not religious, spiritual maybe, but I go for these reasons: for my 2 yr. old daughter to have structure, social learning, Sunday School services (i.e. teachings of God...), & to be around a "healthy" environment, not just for her, but me also, but firstly her, I have OCD/ADHD (non-debilitating/non-irritating to others/non-medicated) & I wouldn't choose to be any other way...I'm just a litl neater, organized, meticulous, & structured than the average person, I'm also very detail orientated, I have a gift to remember numbers (i.e. phone numbers-all you have to do is mention it to me once & I remember forever, not sure why, but it's a gift I guess), I'm good at judging a man's dimensions by appearance (i.e. height, weight, pant size, shoe size, & men, "Get your minds out of the gutter", I haven't a clue on THAT! LMAO), & obviously I have a great sense of humor & I am witty given the opportunity, I have great perseverance due to some difficulties in my life (i.e. bad relationship choices, making me be extremely more aware & cautious of whom is a "healthy" choice & whom may not be), active/faster paced a bit in many things (i.e. talking, walking, driving...) more than the average person, maybe a bit impatient (not in a negative or hurtful way, if I was then I would appreciate feedback, as sometimes we are not very good at being completely self-aware of our own "faults" & how they may affect others), I am a redneck girl mostly (i.e. Chippewa steel toe logger boots, jeans, tank tops...) for (i.e. muddin), but I also can wear a dress, to go "out on the town", (sorry, no spiked high heels & just my opinion, but truly not made for any kind of "normal" comfort, looks only [heels] don't count, but chunky high heels, dress boots, sandals...good to go), believe me, I would either break an ankle, or fall over (lack of coordination), but comfortable appropriate footwear, nonetheless, & I sometimes prefer to get an Up-Do ($25) from my Nail/Hair Dresser (as I said, I am a redneck girl, good with many feminine things, but major sophisticated hairstyles is not one of them) & yes, I get my acrylic nails done every two weeks, but that doesn't "handicap" me from helping my man work on a vehicle, get "dirty", take care of the household chores, cook, etc., I'm real & can be blunt & to the point, too old to take anymore B.S. from anyone, that being said, I have a big heart for many things, in particular kids/animals (i.e. I will literally stop traffic to rescue an injured animal/allow a snake, turtle, or any other animal that is slow & needing my assistance to cross the street, and yes, I said a "snake", & I have literally got out of my vehicle holding traffic up to "scurry" a snake to move quicker across the road, picked up a turtle, that notably was previously run over (i.e. cracked shell in many places), & took it to camp to "repair"/nurture it until I could make the proper calls to have someone from a rescue sanctuary/rehab facility meet me half way to pick up the animal, and I have done the same thing with wild birds, a weasel, just to name a few) & to show how big my heart is, it is a natural "impulse" for me in that type of care/concern for animals & all children, a kind of "drive" I can't & wouldn't want to change, sorry I digress, also I will remove road kill, as the dead deserve respect not to get "squished" any further, so if this all sounds good to someone in particular, send me a message.
*I honestly compare DATING to CAR SALES, I feel like we as humans have to "sell" our best features and options, just like when a car salesman leads you to a particular style of vehicle that he may think fits you well based on the very same criteria (i.e. best features/options), and your decision is the final one of course to "purchase the car" (person)...make sense?
P.S. VERY IMPORTANT! Because I have morals & values & want to live a long healthy life for my children, animals, & myself I do not sleep around & I DEMAND a monogamous relationship that will require the person of my choice to go through a few "tests" (i.e. ALL FEASIBLE STD & HIV/AIDS testing...) I WILL NOT COMPROMISE ON THIS!
Another P.S. I will try to update some more pics via from my cell phone, even though these are fairly up to date & I am about the same size since high school, just a bit older...lol. And oh by the way, I put a lot of "blood/sweat/tears" into this profile, so I expect an A+ for effort...lmao; )