Hi! My name is Wesley. I like boating, river canoeing, bonfires, golf, bbq'ing with friends and family, traveling especially just spontaneously. I was raised by a single mom in the south, I was taught to respect and treat women with respect and im telling you chivalry is not dead, I actually think and know the way "boys" treat women is disgusting and actually immoral. I am a real man that knows how to treat a lady, im respectful, courteous and honest. I have a good head on my shoulders with a great career, Im a respected executive chef for a well established restaurant, Ive been published several times in newspapers and recently in july's issue of traverse magazine. I love cooking for people especially my significant other...uhhhmmmm lol im very funny, awesome sence of humor! and sometimes a little nuts but i like being who i am and not ever straying from that. Im a little against the "machine", politicians suck and i dont have a problem saying whats on my mind, tho keeping my respect and dignity. im a great lover(of course lol) i love to give as well as recieve and you can take that both ways! lol if you want to know more just hit me up!