Hmmmm, well--it is always hard to talk about oneself. I'm a very outgoing and friendly and am attracted to men who are the same--who like to go out and have fun, but who also enjoy a night in too! I am just about finished with graduate school (FINISHED!!!) and I plan to go on to get my PHD, so I am interested in a guy that has his own life, and is very driven like me. I often times find conversation with people lacking--so anyone that can hold their own in a conversation is ideal. If you can make me laugh--triple points!!! I love history, art, culture, music and grew up in the Bay Area, so I am very much an urbanite. However, I do love to get outdoors and just be in nature--hiking, jogging, visiting monuments and parks. My favorite locale is the beach, though, hands-down. I went to UCSB for my BA and truly miss it! I believe everyone is unique and special--and feel that anyone open to new experiences and new things is a good person to know. Turns offs are men who have bad relationships with their mothers, drive like **stards and are mean to animals. I am very health-conscious and try to keep in shape and ideally so would my partner. As for music, I like all kinds and listen as often as I can. I like to sing and play guitar, and my tastes range from opera to metal, with classic rock in between.
Anyway, guess that's all I can think of. Specific questions, e-mail me. Please don't just say 'hi' or 'hello.' And, if you click that you want to meet me, why don't you message me? Don't get that....
Hmmmmm, what can I say? It takes time to get to know someone. Ideally, any place where two people can talk and get to know each other. A great restaurant with good ambiance and exotic food is always nice for a first date. Perhaps drinks and dessert at a different locale afterward. First dates are all about just seeing if people click. Now second dates, those are more fun--I always like dates where two people can laugh at themselves--miniature golf, ballroom dance lessons, silly go-cart racing. I do not take dating so seriously to think that dates have to be perfect, oftentimes it is the evening in that is most fun!!!!!