Most people talk about me smiling all the time. I just do...though I have my moments. The past 6 months have been a whirlwind of new places, from Kauai to Northern California and now Southern Cali again. I have sung all my life, been a landscape designer, writer, worked in corporate America, film, music, television, radio, voice overs, fundraising and events, retail...I am well rounded and entrepeneurial. My relationships mean everything to me. I have friends I have known since age one and am still friendly with my ex. I love movies, all music that is passionate, mystery novels and anything funny. In a man I am looking for someone kind, loving, affectionate, sexy, smart, funny, established, family and friend minded. I love travel, exploring new things, foods, cultures. I am social, but also need the balance of one on one time and alone time. I am happiest around beauty. Loyalty, compassion, partnership, non judgemental, inspiring, humorous, spiritually based and serious about developing a relationship with a soul connection physically, emotionally and spiritually is paramount to me. I love to entertain, and want someone I can be shamelessly myself with, as can he. I want a balanced, reciprocally unconditional relationship. Is that too much to ask? I want my best friend and lover.