Almost ready to throw in the towel on here...... I've been single on and off for most of my life, and I'm fine with that. However, meeting someone who I'm attracted to with common interests would be great as well. The problem is......... the matches that POF has suggested for me don't even come close to anyone I'd be interested in. Not to sound shallow, but I feel you have to have that initial spark or attraction to get to the next point, and I think I can get along with just about anyone, so that should be the easy part...... That being said, I love sports, music (DJing for more than 30 years now), and love hanging out by the waterfront or by the pool (can't wait for spring!).. A little on the sarcastic side, but in a good way...;) Oh yeah, I love to cook ladies, so you don't have to! lol Send me a message if you're interested - good luck!