Well, let's see, my friends say I'm a pretty cool, smart chick, friendly and compassionate. I am also emotionally and financially secure. I love my profession and working at NASA. I also love to laugh, shop, road trips, decorating/remodeling my home, graphic and web design, animals especially pooches and kitties, entertaining at home, love, love, love, dancing, going to the theater and house parties.
What's important to me:
A professional femme womyn who is financially and emotionally secure. She must have a great sense of humor; enjoy quiet times at home and going to the gym.
What I "really" want in a partner:
a) A smart, sexy, attractive femme womyn who's generally calm and low maintenance, but who can also show spontaneity and go on the occasional adventure when circumstances permit.
b) A womyn who is not overly rigid in what she wants from life personally or professionally, but rather is basically content and can go with the flow when needed.
c) A womyn who is grounded and has a strong sense of humor, identity, purpose and independence.
d) A womyn who doesn't want or need to rely on me for economic security but rather comes to the relationship with existing resources.
e) A womyn who's ready and able to give me freedom and support for my personal or professional goals.
f) A womyn who demands respect, is respectful of others, and makes a good impression on others.
g) A womyn who cares about looking good.
What I really don't want
a) An unprofessional womyn.
My idea of the perfect first date is an activity which we both enjoy.
Since I'm a little shy, it might help to have a double date with mutual friends, it maybe less awkkard than a cold, blind date with a stranger.
I want my first date to be fun, well planned, romantic, and I want to be pampered or I want to do the pampering. It does not have to be candy/flowers, but something more personalized like.....an original poem, violin music at the table, a song dedicated to me at a dance club, finding out my favorite color, or perfume, most of all being attentive is my idea of a perfect first date.