PLEASE, When we get to the name introductions, if you can't say my name, please ask, don't butcher my name, (turn off). If you even bother to stop and speak, Get beyond a one word greeting or a degrading "DAAAAAAAMN" That's the quickest way to get you blocked. Don't be an ass. RESPECT is key. This is my first attempt on this site. Meeting people in person and or online can be pressure no matter how one looks at it. It's interesting that so many people assume that I am already in a relationship, & that seems to be why I am never approached. As a young one, my beloved Mother taught me that if I wanted someone to be interested in anything that I found pleasure in, I too had to be open to the same. I play chess, I love to cook, I love football, & MMA. I am happy being at home relaxing in my massaging bed. However, I am also happy to be on the move. I believe that traveling makes you appreciate home. Life is terribly short too. I believe that success is nothing without someone you love to share it with. I know that good things take time and I will find that special someone. Perhaps here, perhaps not. The journey will be fun, so it matters little to me. Say what you mean and mean what you say.
btw. I picked the Jelleyfish because they are unique and beautiful to look at. Look but don't touch unless you've got it like that. I am no man's joy toy. Earn this. Otherwise WATCH OUT! You just might get stung. That's real.
One more thing, I have heard that I have eyes as big as the moon. I know what I have been blessed with, so there is no need to try and be "original". Telling me I've got Bettie Davis eyes is not cool (she's dead) rip... Don't quote Little Red Riding Hood. Just be yourself. I don't want to know a fake, flake or pretender. I want to meet YOU. I don't like my time wasted by anyone who wants to connect just because they like my latex. Shallow asses need not continue. This madness shouldn't be that difficult. If I answer a question, there's no need to ask the same question to see if I lied for some reason the first time. Ie.. "Is that really your name? Are those real tattoos, Are you really this or that? Please don't label me a liar. That's just ugly. That's all.
No pressure is what I truly appreciate. Just taking time to get to know each other. I am no slave to the "invisible" rule book. So if I am approached with such expectations, keep it moving. If I make out, with a big, juicy, passionate kiss, SWEET! If I don't then great too. I live in the moment when times are good. If not, then I take a break. Strangers that comment or critique my profile, calling it mean spirited or rude, who asked you? Guilty of something are you? STFU. If you don't like my profile, suck it. Tell someone who gives a ****. I surely don't. If my BAWLZ are bigger than yours, then I am not the right one. Secure & true need only proceed. If I am too nice, then everyone will think I'm easy. Nothing worth having is easy. We tend to value things that we put our hearts and hard work into. Just an opinion.