I'm looking for friends first?? so please no F-Buddy offers..
I like simple life.. Being outside when it's warm out... Walks... Concerts.. Outdoor concerts/festivals.. Cars.. Chevy.. Camaro.. Car shows... Tattoos.. Swimming.... Checking out new things, places, restaurants, conventions... Prefer bar scene for live music and friends once in a while ... otherwise I'm happier with the backyard barbecue/fire pit and close friends.. Music.. Hip hop.. Dance.. Country.. Alternative.. Metal.. A little of everything.. Movies... Comedies.. Drama... Art... Making crafts... I'd love to learn how to build more things myself, like projects around the house type of thing...
Anything you want to know, just ask. I should save some things for meeting in person, lol.
And I love asking questions, learning about new people, finding things in common as much as find new things to share with each other and maybe something new to both of us. Life is short and I'm trying to make the best of it. :-)
I''m working on a fresh start to a lot of things in my life, so please no crazy drama. Yes I'm in middle of divorce but the relationship has been dead for years, just insurance issues with the kids, I'll explain more later if you want. I know my situation isn't ideal but the amount of people on here that have all types of situations, I figured I would stay and maybe try and find some new friends and eventually more. I'm not trying to waste anyone's time either and I do explain things asap cause I don't think everyone reads these. If you expect me to have a perfect job (I chose to stay at home w my kids, so I'm working my way back up now that they are in school full time) then at least please have A job yourself, ... just a trend and it's frustrating..
please don't expect me to drop everything either and run to your bed or whatever crazy idea u have, I have two kids, they come 1st, before me sometimes... one day someone will be patient enough to understand this and understand, you are an adult, you can wait for the most part, they are young and something's in their life can't wait the same way..eventually you will be a lot higher on that list but I can't do that right away. I don't always like it either but that's part of being a parent. I love my kids and I'm trying to do the best I can with them and I think it's plenty appropriate for me to wait til I get to know you before my kids. For those that don't have kids, they get super duper attached very quickly and tend to think they did something to ruin the friendship if something doesn't work, heck they think my friends and coworkers are their best buddies so hopefully this can be understood.
I'm sorry it's not easy to do this but if we get passed that, then you'll see why it's worth it.. they do have a dad, but I still would like you to at least be a decent role model in front of them, shouldn't be too much to ask?, friend or date, I expect the same. and no unfortunately you won't meet them the first time I meet you. There is a reason for this and my kids don't need to get involved that quick, I will gladly explain why to any of these things. I'm not a ****, just getting too old for the crazy drama. Thanks for reading :-)
I'm really not trying to sound like a big **** but some of the stuff some guys say makes me feel like I'm in high school again, and not in a good way. So I tried to explain it best I can in a box. Thanks :-) :-)
Conversation Starters (i.e. what you'd like to do on a first date...)
We'll discuss, think it's important to be able to talk and see if we get along.. And fun of course