My name is Julie. I have been separated for about a year and a half. I am ready for a new relationship- will not be going back to the ex, just have not gone through the whole divorce process yet. I have 2 kids from that marriage and they are my life so I am looking for someone who will be a positive role-model in their lives. I have a 10 year old daughter and a 12 year old son. I am open to having another child eventually, but also open to keeping it at just the 2. Right now I am in Hospital Security but I am in school for Nursing (half way through the RN program) so I'm pretty busy, but I am ready to put in a serious effort to spend needed time to get to know that special someone. About the one I'm looking for- he must be established in life (no I'm not looking for a sugar daddy, just don't need to be anyone's sugar momma either!) Must be patient as I need to take my time and get to know him before I decide if he's someone I want to introduce to my children. Good sense of humor is a must! I love to laugh but haven't been doing nearly enough of it so if you can put that special little smile on my face, you just might win my heart! :) Must be a good cuddler also! I do have to appologise that I have a couple of bathroom pics on here...what can I say, it's good lighting in there!!! lol
Disclaimer: Ok, so I'm starting to figure out this whole online dating thing and figured I'd put a few things out there to hopefully weed out a few people who just aren't right for me from the get-go...Although I've noticed that the ones I'm talking about tend to have a habit of only looking at pictures and not reading what goes with them anyway but here goes...
I am not here for a one night stand or video chat sex...Don't get me wrong, sex is great, but I think it is much better between two people who care about eachother. As I said before I have 2 kids, so it's important to me that I am setting a good example for them and so I will not be bringing a bunch of random guys home every other night.
I plan on taking things nice and slow, starting by a little back and forth chatting on here, either by messaging or IM chatting and getting to know a little about eachother and find out if we have a thing or two in common...If I don't get a serial killer vibe off of you and I want to get to know you a little more without the agonizing wait to see if we're online at the same time again, I will send you my phone number and we can text/call eachother a bit...eventually we'll go out for lunch/ dinner or coffee or drinks...whatever we decide to get to know eachother a little face to face and find out if there's any connection, cause let's face it you can chat with people online all you want but when you meet face to face if there's no spark it's time to walk away! After a while of dating just the two of us getting to know eachother you might get to meet the kids...I will not bring anyone around my kids until I know that he is going to be sticking around for a while...it's kind of a big deal to me! So then once you meet the kids, things can be a little more flexible since I won't have to always be planning my time with you around when I don't have the kids because by this time we can start to hang out together with the kids too (of course there will still be plenty of times we'll hang out without them!)
If this chain of events sounds unreasonable to you, you aren't my type, so please keep looking. You can tell that this might take a little time, but I promise that if you're patient with me I will be worth it! :)
One more little disclaimer: If you are planning on stalking me I will warn you I do sleep with a Glock next to my bed and I do know how to use it! ;)
I went to the ACME comedy club in Minneapolis with friends recently and I thought it was a very nice date atmosphere. The dinner area is nice without being too spendy and gives us time to talk and get to know eachother before the show. The comedy club part is set up perfectly for couples and the service is great! :) Of course this is more of a first date as a "real" couple...I think for a first "get to know eachother" date it would be more appropriate to just get some lunch or dinner somewhere nice a quiet that we can actually talk and learn a little bit about eachother...depending on the time of day coffee or a couple drinks would be just fine too- I'm flexible!
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