Okay, so yes I do know what I want and its nothing so far fetched that its laugh worthy or rediculous. I want what most do, a best friend with that spark. I say most people because its apparent that some are here looking for a muse to act out on/in/with - Idk!
I don't like when people accuse me of being too picky, I'm not picky! I just refuse to settle for good enough. I don't have a specific physical type that I'm attracted to, its more of an emotional connection that I go for. That and intelligence, I need someone to debate current events and beliefs with. I'm not the skinniest or hottest chick around and I'm not looking for that in a man either, those traits don't interest me as much as the substance a man has, confidence is way more appealing anyway.
I am certain that if you have a username that you were surprised pof accepted, I don't see a return message in your future! I've learned what I don't want and am just trying to find a great guy, I'm confident that one exists, somewhere. I've got a job that I generally enjoy, I work more than I'd prefer but at least I like what I'm doing and I cannot imagine working in any other field at this point. I lead a pretty happy and drama free life, I've got the best of friends and will find humor in almost any situation but I always have it in the back of my head that one person is missing from my whole equation.