Let me begin by saying that I'm not looking for a casual relationship. I'm not a serial dater and would like to find someone who wants a relationship. I have heard it all from "I want to take things slow" to "I'm not really looking for anything serious". I am all for not rushing into anything but I tend to act on how I feel as opposed to setting guidelines before I meet people.
About me: I am 31, friendly, approachable, always optimistic, easy to talk to, confident, outgoing, layed back, and unselfish. I love my family and close fiends and would do anything for them. I am the kind of person who is happier doing for others than for myself, and don't require anything in return. I grew up in south jersey and there is so much i miss about that lifestyle, which if you know anything about south jersey you know it's like a different state. I miss the quiet, the land, small town, and more layed back feel of where I grew up but I do like the diversity and convenience the north provides. I consider myself to be classy and girly and enjoy nice restaurants but due to my south jersey roots I am not afraid to get my hands dirty. I spent a lot of time four wheeling in the woods and riding quads growing up. For fun I like to hang out with my friends. We frequently go to brunch, dinner, happy hour. I love to try new food, I'm into ethnic food, Indian being one of my favorites. I like to play pool even though I'm out of practice and I'm always up for new adventurs. I also love hockey and hope to get to a few games this season.
What I'm looking for: I'm looking for someone who can make me laugh. In my experience I have found that one of the most important qualities to me is someone who doesn't have a problem being silly. Obviously loyalty and honesty are important as well and someone who doesn't have any trust issues or emotional baggage. I've been through a lot in my life but I don't take negativity into new relationships. I take each experience as a learning experience and has helped me decide what I will and will not tolerate as well as what I do and do not want, and I do know what I want. When I am in a relationship I give all of myself and I enjoy taking care of the person I'm with. I would like to find the same in somone. I am affectionate and would like to find somone who enjoys cuddling :-) and is also affectionate. I could go on but I've said quite a bit lol... Like I said, I know what I want! So if u are interested in getting to know me better, please feel free to message me :-)
I guess coffee or something like that is the best idea for an initial meeting. If there's chemistry then we can go from there, maybe dinner, or a nice walk :-)