jap1979: Read profile before clicking YES on meet me
Non-Smoker with Average body type
North brookfield, Massachusetts
36 year old Female, < 5' (< 152 cm), Non-religious
Caucasian Aquarius with Mixed Color
jap1979 is actively seeking a relationship.
High school

2/28/15 ... all dressed up with no where to go.

I am Seeking a Man For Long Term
Needs Test View her relationship needs Chemistry View her chemistry results
Do you drink? No Do you want children? Undecided/Open
Marital Status Divorced Do you do drugs? No
Pets Dog Eye Color Blue
Do you have a car? No Do you have children? Yes
Longest Relationship Over 6 years How ambitious are you? Ambitious
Second Language Other  

About Jen
UPDATE 3/1/15: Just spent the past week talking to somebody who said they wanted to meet me and then the day arrived when he said he wanted to meet up and then backed out the last second. Never e-mailed me, texted, nor called to tell me that he wasn't going to show up, just decided on being a no show. Let me make it plain and simple: I AM 36 YEARS OLD, I HAVE A 6 YEAR OLD CHILD I HAVE ENOUGH GAMES WITH MY CHILD. I DO NOT NEED A GROWN a*** MAN PLAYING GAMES LIKE THIS! IF YOU WANT TO PLAY GAMES MESSAGE ME YOUR BATTLETAG NAME AND WE'LL GO FROM THERE! DO *NOT* TALK TO ME UNLESS YOU ARE SERIOUS ABOUT MEETING UP! I CANNOT SAY HOW SICK OF THIS B.S. I REALLY AM. So, there you have it, plain and simple, if you're not serious, don't waste my time. I have lost count of how many guys on here have asked to meet up and then just leave me hanging. I am *VERY* serious about meeting somebody. If this makes me sound b****y then so be it.
UPDATE 2/12/15 I cannot say how tired I am of people saying they want to meet me, have it be a mutual match that we both want to meet each other and then I send the first message, I get one reply, I send a second message and then complete and total silence from the guy. Is it just my destiny to be alone for the rest of my life? I live in a very small town, my options are extremely limited on how I can meet men, especially with the fact that I have no car of my own (something I am working on fixing) and that I have a 6 year old son. Some times I feel like it is my destiny to be alone for the rest of my life with just my son because of how guys on here act. I am not a member of any other dating website because I am not willing to pay to be able to correspond with other people like that. I am really serious about trying to find somebody to see if we connect. Even if we do not, we could still remain friends like I have with one other I met on here more than 2 years ago, the last time I went out on a date with anybody. I have so much to give and nobody to give it to. I need some adult conversations and not about Mickey Mouse Club House or Miles for Tomorrow Land as I do with my son. I love him like no other, but enough is enough of cartoon talk, unless the cartoons are Looney Tunes or something like that my son doesn't watch. I know I'm not the most beautiful person on here, I don't claim to be so either. I also know that I'm not ugly either.
"I'm selfish, impatient, and a little insecure. I make mistakes, I am out of control and at times hard to handle. But if you can't handle me at my worst, then you sure as hell don't deserve me at my best.” ? Marilyn Monroe
Yes, I do believe that quote describes me perfectly.
You may call me a whiny B***h at what I am going to say here, but go for it, you can't insult me.
Don't bother contacting me if you have one or the following:
-- Incarcerated (I don't judge. I could care less what you are in prison for, but you honestly do *NOT* belong on a dating website. You have to get your life back in order before getting into a social life/dating. Do your time, get out, buy yourself a plant. Keep it alive for 6 months, get an animal of some sort, keep that alive for a year after you get the plant. If after 18 months both the animal and plant are still alive, join a dating website, but until then, please stay away from me. I would actually like to be able to go out on a real date with a guy, not have to sit and wait until you're out of prison)
-- More pictures of your tattoos than your face (unless the tattoo is on your neck or bare arm and the picture is actually of your face, then so be it, but I honestly don't want to see them up close and personal unless we are actually meeting one another, then, by all means, show me, I don't mind tattoos in the least bit, but not when I am trying to see the person on the other side of the computer)
-- Pictures of yourself with multiple people but don't point out who YOU are (I can't tell you how many guys have contacted me through this website with pictures in groups of 3 - 10 men & not once showing who he is)
-- Pictures of your children (Yes, I love children, I have one of my own, but I am really not interested in seeing them right now, I do not have a picture of my son on here with me. Children do not belong on dating websites)
-- More pictures of your vehicles (car, truck, motorcycle etc) than yourself (I don't judge a man by what he drives. I could care less if you drive a moped or use your own two feet like I do)
-- More pictures of landscape and scenery than yourself (I'm happy that you love nature, really, I am, but I can see nature when I walk outside or do a google search. I rather see a picture of you in front of the nature scene)
-- Pictures of yourself where you are trying to make yourself look like a bad ass (Enough with the gang signs and whatnot, the men I am looking at are 30 years of age and older. Do you realize how unattractive it is seeing a 40 year old man sticking his tongue out and flashing gang signs? Grow up)
-- Pictures that are not even pictures of yourself (ie cartoons and quotation pictures . . . this isn't facebook, twitter, myspace or any of those other social networking sites. This is a dating website.)
Let me start off by saying nobody's perfect and I know for a fact that I'm not perfect. Don't even pretend that you are. I have flaws, we all do. I have a son who is my whole world. I am a single mother and I am all he knows. His father walked out on us when I was 10 weeks pregnant. End of story. I don't know why I'm even still on this website because people say they want to meet me and if I say I'd like to meet them too, I'll send them a message as well and that's the end of it. All I have to say is that if you are actually reading my profile, don't bother saying you want to meet me unless you plan on holding up to your end. I'm 36 years old, way too old for that high school drama shit. If I want drama, I'll watch a soap opera (in which then I'll have to gouge my eyes out with a dull kitchen knife). So please, don't make me do that because I've been told time and time again that I have beautiful blue-gray eyes. Want to find out? Don't be like everybody else and just use me as a number.
If you made it this far, congrats. If you message me and I don't reply message me @ jen221979@gmail.com

First Date
It's starting to get colder now, especially at night. Options are wearing thin at this time of year. I'm not a drinker of alcohol nor coffee, but I'll take a juice or even glass of ice water with a wedge of lime in it. There are plenty of places to go sit and talk to get to know one another. Hell, I'll even spring for a plate of mozzarella sticks if you're hungry. I'm not picky that way. I've been on this site for 2 years now, met up with 2 people, one who cut me off like I was nothing without even saying anything, and another who told me after our first date he wanted to be just friends. Most people would give up after that. I'm still trucking along here. I leave the rest up to you.


Let's talk about it and see where it goes . . . though I'm normally the one who ends up making 100% of the plans . . . it's warming up, do you have a pick up truck? Know of a lake/pond to park at? Pack some PB/J sandwiches, juice boxes, cushions & blanket, back the truck up to the body of water & watch the sun set. People call me cheap, I call it being unique and even my idea of romantic. A lot of guys don't like spending a lot of money on a first date and I don't blame them.


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