jap1979: Read profile before clicking YES on meet me
Non-smoker with Average body type
North brookfield, Massachusetts
35 year old Woman, < 5' (< 152 cm), Non-Religious
Caucasian Aquarius with Mixed color hair
jap1979 is looking for a relationship.
High School

Labor Day Weekend 2014

I am Seeking a Man For Long term
Needs Test View her relationship needs Chemistry View her chemistry results
Do you drink? I do not drink Do you want children? Undecided
Marital Status Divorced Do you do drugs? No
Pets Dog Eye Color Blue
Do you have a car? No Do you have children? Yes
Longest Relationship Over 6 years How ambitious are you? Somewhat Ambitious
Second Language Other  

About Me

UPDATE 12/4/14

You may call me a whiny **** at what I am going to say here, but go for it, you can't insult me.

Don't bother contacting me if you have one or the following:
-- Incarcerated (I don't judge. I could care less what you are in prison for, but you honestly do *NOT* belong on a dating website. You have to get your life back in order before getting into a social life/dating. Do your time, get out, buy yourself a plant. Keep it alive for 6 months, get an animal of some sort, keep that alive for a year after you get the plant. If after 18 months both the animal and plant are still alive, join a dating website, but until then, please stay away from me. I would actually like to be able to go out on a real date with a guy, not have to sit and wait until you're out of prison)

-- More pictures of your tattoos than your face (unless the tattoo is on your neck or bare arm and the picture is actually of your face, then so be it, but I honestly don't want to see them up close and personal unless we are actually meeting one another, then, by all means, show me, I don't mind tattoos in the least bit, but not when I am trying to see the person on the other side of the computer)

-- Pictures of yourself with multiple people but don't point out who YOU are (I can't tell you how many guys have contacted me through this website with pictures in groups of 3 - 10 men & not once showing who he is)

-- Pictures of your children (Yes, I love children, I have one of my own, but I am really not interested in seeing them right now, I do not have a picture of my son on here with me. Children do not belong on dating websites)

-- More pictures of your vehicles (car, truck, motorcycle etc) than yourself (I don't judge a man by what he drives. I could care less if you drive a moped or use your own two feet like I do)

-- More pictures of landscape and scenery than yourself (I'm happy that you love nature, really, I am, but I can see nature when I walk outside or do a google search. I rather see a picture of you in front of the nature scene)

-- Pictures of yourself where you are trying to make yourself look like a bad ass (Enough with the gang signs and whatnot, the men I am looking at are 30 years of age and older. Do you realize how unattractive it is seeing a 40 year old man sticking his tongue out and flashing gang signs? Grow up)

-- Pictures that are not even pictures of yourself (ie cartoons and quotation pictures . . . this isn't facebook, twitter, myspace or any of those other social networking sites. This is a dating website.)


Let me start off by saying nobody's perfect and I know for a fact that I'm not perfect. Don't even pretend that you are. I have flaws, we all do. I have a son who is my whole world. I am a single mother and I am all he knows. His father walked out on us when I was 10 weeks pregnant. End of story. I don't know why I'm even still on this website because people say they want to meet me and if I say I'd like to meet them too, I'll send them a message as well and that's the end of it. All I have to say is that if you are actually reading my profile, don't bother saying you want to meet me unless you plan on holding up to your end. I'm 35 years old (going on 36 in another month or so), way too old for that high school drama shit. If I want drama, I'll watch a soap opera (in which then I'll have to gouge my eyes out with a dull kitchen knife). So please, don't make me do that because I've been told time and time again that I have beautiful blue-gray eyes. Want to find out? Don't be like everybody else and just use me as a number.

What am I looking for? Well, first and foremost, you must love children. Even if you don't want to have any children, like I said, I am a single mother to a child who means the world to me. He is my miracle. A very close second is that even if you don't like country music, do not bash it openly in front of me. Personally, I rather listen about trucks and dogs over murder and whores any day.


First Date
It's starting to get colder now, especially at night. Options are wearing thin at this time of year. I'm not a drinker of alcohol nor coffee, but I'll take a juice or even glass of ice water with a wedge of lime in it. There are plenty of places to go sit and talk to get to know one another. Hell, I'll even spring for a plate of mozzarella sticks if you're hungry. I'm not picky that way. I've been on this site for 2 years now, met up with 2 people, one who cut me off like I was nothing without even saying anything, and another who told me after our first date he wanted to be just friends. Most people would give up after that. I'm still trucking along here. I leave the rest up to you.


Let's talk about it and see where it goes . . . though I'm normally the one who ends up making 100% of the plans . . . it's warming up, do you have a pick up truck? Know of a lake/pond to park at? Pack some PB/J sandwiches, juice boxes, cushions & blanket, back the truck up to the body of water & watch the sun set. People call me cheap, I call it being unique and even my idea of romantic. A lot of guys don't like spending a lot of money on a first date and I don't blame them.


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