Anybody Out There WORTHWHILE!! Im Beginning to wonder.
New to the area! Just made a huge life change and moved from Texas to Alabama. Im like a duck out of water and need to find a pool. Damn it is hot here!! Lol. Im a 38 yr old professional and would love to find someone to share some quality time with. I'm looking for someone who can rock my world! I want to sleep with my socks on, dance In the rain, engage in an occasional food fight, meet your parents, laugh under the stars, place straws in my nose at the restaraunt to make you smile, hold your hand, kiss your lips and tell you that I love you. Are you out there?
I do have four children ages 22, 20, 18 (they chose to stay In Texas) to persue their schooling and careers and my precious 5 year old. They are the very reason I am who I am today. I've been divorced for 18 years and I bring no drama of any kind to the table for a new relationship. Past relationships are long since resolved and cordial in all areas . I've been very fortunate and blessed in many areas of my life as i have had just as many hurdles, obstacles and heartaches that i have had to endure along the way.
I believe that our experiences through life and the way we choose to handle them are what shape the person we become. Our life is only as great as we allow it to be, I dont believe destiny or good luck plays much of a factor with exception of rare circumstance perhaps.
I am strong minded, opinionated, independent and very capable of taking care of my family and those things I take great pride in. But now Its about us. Im ready to have someone take care of me and expect the same In return.
With that being said, I'm very open to others ideas and feelings. I'm not afraid to admit when I'm wrong or to say I'm sorry. I'm also very caring and compassionate. There are many colors to my personality as rings true for most I think but overall, I'm real, down to earth, easy going, and blunt.
Im looking for a relationship with substance. I have no time for nor interest in games and bullsh**. I have learned over the years with many trials, triumphs, and pitfalls in my relationships that both parties must contribute equally on all levels and if one side is not willing to pull the weight then it's time to throw in the towel!
A great relationship does not consist of one trying to change the other, it comes from sharing similar likes and values. A balance of personalities , honesty, strong support system and open communication.
Im not looking for a boy or a boy toy, I can pick either up at any bar any given night. Im looking for a real man with a good heart and with the intention to treat a woman the way a woman should be treated. If you think you measure up please feel free to drop me a line. Take care and Hope to find you soon!
Nice dinner, drinks, casual conversation in a comfortable atmosphere to begin peeling back the layers to reveal if a second date may follow.