Hello, I am new to this online dating thing...but I guess when you really think about things in today's busy society where might an intellectual, goal-oriented, and busy lady such as myself meet a like-minded, quality, single man these days? So I thought it couldn't hurt to take a look and see what I find......
A little about me, I am about to be 32 years old and recently (and most likely temporarily) relocated to Gardnerville, NV from Downtown San Jose, Cali where I lived for the last 14 years of my life. I was born and raised in the Bay Area and really do miss the hell out of it. I have to say I really do appreciate the diversity of people, the life opportunity available, the technological advancements silicon valley is known for, the wide spectrum of activities there are to do and the the surrounding beautiful places there are to go and experience.
To be 100% honest, I hadn't planned nor did I have any intention of moving here....I was only coming up to visit my family temporarily and next thing I know....I am living here. It's quite an adjustment and I have to say I am really having a hard time getting use to the very much different way of life out this way, not to mention it doesn't help that other than my family, I don't know ANYBODY here. So that makes it pretty boring....as I do see there are a lot of outdoor and other fun activities to do around here....it just sucks when you have no one to go out and experience them with.
I had been looking for something long term while in San Jose, as I am not getting any younger, however at this point I am not quite sure if I am going to be staying here long term or short term at this point. It all depends on where I find a quality job first.....but hey one never knows...if I were to get a job here and meet someone I was really into, had some awesome chemistry with, and the feelings were mutual...I wouldn't be opposed to stick around I suppose. In the meantime, I am not looking for anyone to add to the stress of trying to readjust to a totally new environment, or anyone with a demanding type "A" personality, just looking for someone laid back, fun, with some like interests to pass the time with and possibly see where things may go. I mean after all it never hurts to make a new friend :)
Personality wise I am an easy-going kind of girl, I like to be spontaneous and adventurous.......def. not the kind of person who enjoys being on a strict time schedule, or the type to plan out my day minute by minute......especially in my free time. I'm a free spirited type of person and find it boring to live my life in a ritualistic manner on the day to day basis...that type of thing both disinterests me and bores me to death. I don't respond well to demanding people who get worked up over ridiculous things in life. I live on MY time schedule and if you can't handle that.....don't waste your time or mine. I like to be around people I can learn something from, people who are positive, and who have the ability to make the best out of any given situation. I like to laugh and have a good time with whoever I am around doing whatever it is I might be doing. I am an ambitious person, I have several goals both long term and short term that I would like to accomplish in my lifetime; I work hard so when the time is right, I like to play hard as well. I am an understanding person, I realize the daily, family, and other various job and social demands life places on us as human beings and I expect others to have that same understanding for me. There is no telling what life will bring on the day to day basis that is out of our control so I do value those of you in the world who have patients and respect for others responsibilities and life situations who can be mature and think outside the box by not playing the victim constantly. I am a loyal friend and companion and can't stand people who are quick to make absurd assumptions without knowing any factual information.
I have a passion for music, I make electronic beats via the "grand wizard" Triton hahaha and other various computer programs (my favorite being Orion), and I enjoy playing guitar. I love all different types of music: Hip Hop, Doom Metal, Death Metal, Reggae, Dub, Dancehall, Jazz, Funk, Blues, Drum N Bass, House, Dubstep, Classic Rock, Alternative, Progressive, Classical, and the list goes on. I look for creativity, substance, and talent, in the music I appreciate. I enjoy going to live shows, music festivals, that sort of thing, discovering new music, or just hanging out listening to music.
I love sports my favorites being basketball and hockey. I played hockey and soccer on organized teams, and played basketball at the park everyday for years. I am pretty athletic and still enjoy shooting some hoops, skateboarding around town, and snowboarding as much as possible in the winter. Love going to Warrior and A's games, I'm a Denver Broncos fan haha, and I have yet to see a Sharks game if you can believe that!! Def. one of my goals for the upcoming hockey season!! I like camping, water skiing, hiking, shooting, bowling......I like to be outdoors when the weather is nice. I love going to the beach, the lake, and the Board Walk (in Santa Cruz), taking a drive in the mountains and exploring new areas, etc. I like to play chess, I like to do a little gambling here and there I love any game involving dice and/or cards, and logic. I love poker both playing and watching....hahaha I even like to play video games...mainly ones involving sports, casinos, racing, and music. I love all sorts of science: Astronomy, Physics, Chemistry, Biology; love to read books, research, and learn new things. I rarely watch the idiot box and am not down with people who use it as a form of constant entertainment as I don't find it the least bit amusing unless there is a good documentary on the history channel or science channel or something of that sort.
My Professional life has consisted of 15 years in the Real Estate Industry. I have owned my own business for the last 10 years providing various freelance escrow coordination and short sale negotiation services and solutions to Realtors as well as technical support, computer repair, and training. I also have 3 years of property management experience and my last job in San Jose, I functioned as the on-site apartment manager of the building I lived in for almost 8 years. I have an AS in Business Administration/Legal Assisting and am halfway done with a second AS in Information Technology Network Security.
Honestly I'm just looking for some chill people with common interests to go out and kick it with. There is a lot to do around here, I like to be outdoors and the weather is perfect so might as well take advantage of it......I AM NOT INTERESTED IN BEING SUM1'S BOOTY CALL OR 1 NITE STAND....SO IF THAT IS WHAT U R LOOKIN 4.....LOOK ELSEWHERE!!