So I'm in the Navy. But I try my hardest to not let it dictate my entire life. In two years I'll be getting out and going back to California. I'm not actively looking for relationship but I'm not closed off to it either. When I'm not working I like to go to the gym, play games and watch movies at home, Go out to the beach the club or just somewhere where you can get a drink and talk. I may be shy at first but once I get to know people I treat them like I known them forever. Even though looking for dates I'm also looking for some friends that I can talk to.