"Your task is not to seek for love, but merely to seek and find all the barriers within yourself that you have built against it. ~ Rumi
I'm probably a bit of pain in the ass & every bit worth it. I am learning how to balance my high standards with a sort of Buddhist attitude of releasing expectations and attachment to the outcome. It ain't easy, this being-in-the-present...but I'm showing up for my life and I feel when I've met the right person, I will show up fully for him as well.
I've spent the last few years doing a lot of "soul work"...trying to live in alignment with my values, following my bliss and intuition, and getting continuously more clear on what I want and what I don't.
I feel like I am a really fun mess of contradictions: quite solitary but love to dance with my friends, perform, and be in delicious company of a lover; extremely progressive in my values but somewhat old-fashioned when it comes to dating...and etcetera.
I could make a long list telling you how sensuous and fabulous I am, and all the things I crave in a partner, but really, when it comes down to it, it's all about the pheromones. Ethics & lifestyle are crucial, but there's so much more, and I have decided to just stop trying to "find" it and instead, follow my heart and be open to the possibilities.
I feel that we all attract the right people into our lives at any given moment so that we can figure out sh*tout and learn how to love one another. I want to honor that process--both my own and the man I'm with.
If you are:
kind to the wait staff;
communicative and direct;
living a life that is healthy and pleasurable;
highly sensual, passionate and affectionate;
funny and goofy;
comfortable with complexity and contradiction;
spiritual without being dogmatic;
...or any other delightful combination of wonderful, I would love to hear from you.
Also, just a P.S., I love marijuana way too much and I would deeply prefer to be with someone who is less inclined than me to live in a fog. I like myself much better when I am not smoking, and around someone who doesn't smoke much.
Let's go get a drink! If that feels good, maybe dinner? I'm a vegetarian but I really don't care what you eat in my presence unless it's, like, squirming--just please don't fry a big-ass fish in my kitchen and we're all good. My palate is easy to please in this town and I love most of it. Sweets, beer, wine,YES and YES.
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