SMTHNGNW40: Couldn't hurt, right??? :-)
About
Non-smoker with Average body type
City
Hopkins, Minnesota
Details
42 year old Woman, 5' 4" (163cm), Non-Religious
Ethnicity
Black Cancer with Brown hair
Intent
SMTHNGNW40 Wants a relationship
Education
High School
Personality
Foodie
Profession
PCA


dating
1-10-14






I am Seeking a Man For Long term
Needs Test Not Completed Chemistry Not Completed
Do you drink? Socially Do you want children? No
Marital Status Single Do you do drugs? No
Pets No Pets Eye Color Brown
Do you have a car? Yes Do you have children? Yes
Longest Relationship Over 7 years How ambitious are you? Ambitious



About Me
"Never love anybody who treats you like you're ordinary." ~ Oscar Wilde

HELLO! *** WARNING *** It's a long read, but with everyone being so vague on this site, I figure I should tell you a little about who I am and how I think. :- ) Most of us are here for the same reasons, I'm guessing. I'm hoping to make this a positive experience for us both soooooo..... enjoy the ride..... ;-)

I'm the tom-boy who now loves dresses and 4" heels. The answer is yes, I can run in them. LOL! I love to watch sports on TV but would rather watch them live. There's so much out there that I have yet to try, adventures I haven't had, simply because time or opportunity hasn't presented itself to do so. I'd love to meet someone with an excitement for a variety of hobbies and interests who is willing to introduce them to me as well. My interests are so diverse that you'd be hard pressed to find something I couldn't enjoy doing. I'm not at all shy and I'm quite the people person. I really enjoy getting to know new people, can get along with just about anybody, and I have an eclectic group of friends.

I'm an easy going person but I expect people to always try to do and be their best in every situation. The men I've met through online dating are shocked to learn I really am as I portray myself in my profile. My understanding is that is not the norm. I, too, have unfortunately learned the same about the majority of the men I've met in person and/or dated. "Honesty is an expensive gift. You can't expect it from cheap people." I'm direct and honest ALWAYS, whether it be the "day to day" or the serious issues. It's simply how I'm built. I'm not rude or disrespectful by any means, but if you are looking for someone to blow smoke, I'm not she. You must say what you mean and mean what you say. I'd much rather you state what's on your mind, ask questions, and communicate. I'm a big girl- I can handle just about anything and still remain classy. :-) I try to keep my world drama free. Who needs that, right?? Mutual respect is a big deal to me, as well as accountability, honesty and trust. All of these traits, including loyalty, should go without saying, but I need to stress the importance of them anyway as they are deal breakers for me. Bottom line, I'm a great woman looking for a great man. :-)

Okay, for the superficial stuff I like in a man--- You actually need to look like the photos you post. We all look different, slimmer, better in our youth. I'm not trying to date the younger you. :-) I prefer a taller man as well as someone who takes care of themselves, takes pride in their appearance, and one who is at least somewhat current in the way that he dresses. Hopefully this same man owns an iron and knows how to use it. ;-) I'm also a huge fan of a well-groomed beard or goatee. What can I say, I like the scruff and a bit of the rugged look. :-)

I love to laugh and be silly... A LOT, but I have a serious and passionate side that runs deep. I'm often sarcastic but with only the intent to make you laugh or smile, never as a put down. I'm ready to get to know someone who is free and fun, but who also possesses maturity. It's a balance that is achievable and necessary in my eyes. I'm usually a very affectionate person. If I'm with someone I care about, I like to be close. It's that simple. I'd welcome the same. :-)

I'm generally a very happy person. I'm told that I'm always smiling. I don't even realize it. So, word to the wise, if I don't see you smiling in any of your pics, I'm going to assume you don't. And if you don't have any pics to share??? NEXT. LOL :-p (Yes, that's green Trident in all my pics. I'm addicted to lipstick and gum. Deal with it. LOL)

The online dating process is still a little new and strange to me. I'm not out to be a "serial dater" so if that's what you seek, we are definitely not a match. I'd prefer someone who is emotionally healthy and actually truly ready to share their life, time, heart and mind with someone--- possibly ME. Haha. It takes compromise and work to fit someone new into your world but I'm up for the task and the fun that goes along with it. :-) I have a great son who is older and more mature now. Being his mom is priority one, but I do know the importance of having a life separate from parenthood. I've been dating and happily single for a few years but I now miss having that special someone. I miss the feeling of being in love. For those who have been there, you know how great it is. So.... I'm looking to find my man. (smile) We'll see... :-)

Don't be afraid to let me know you're interested. I'll let you know if I feel the same. In doing so, a bit more than, "Hi. How are you?' is needed for a response. Just beware that I make a MEAN chocolate chip, white chocolate and toasted walnut cookie that you'll be missing out on. :-]


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