UPDATE: I just lost my job . So of you are one of his ladies who wont't talk to a gentleman who is out of work then move on. And too bad for you.
For the rest of you..thanks for stopping by..I'm Jonathan. I consider myself to be an intelligent, classy, sophisticated and somewhat eclectic gentleman. Little about me is standard or "normal". I look to writers, composers, playwrights for inspiration. Some are famous, some are not, some I have not heard of yet. All of them share a passion for what they do which draws me to them.
Passion is a good part of what I am all about. The rest of I am still discovering.
l consider myself Introspective and not afraid to say I do not know because admitting ignorance is the first step to growth. That is why I am Intense listener and have an inquisitive mind.
It has taken me a while to know I am a better person when I am with someone. As you help me become better, I hope to do the same for you.
I do not have a set criterion of what you "should" be. I don't have a check list in my head of what you should look like or if you have to like sports or certain types of music. That is not fair because the more open we are the more we can experience otherwise we limit ourselves. For me, I have found that I have to sometimes go out of my comfort zone to gain these new experiences.Not easy.
I ask that you be who are because I will be who I am(at least what I know about myself so far). It is easy if you like someone you suppress your own personality simply because you want them to like you back. The hard part is staying who you are. The trick then is finding the balance of how we can be ourselves with each other.
I have no problem with being honest about my life experiences. I have nothing to hide and prefer being direct. That is my choice. As for you, you can say as much you or as little as you like. That is your choice.
Go ahead and send me a note if you are so inclined but if you made it this far I'm thinking you may be curious enough to do just that.
All my best.
Conversation Starters (i.e. what you'd like to do on a first date...)
Let's find an environment that makes it easy for us to relax in...one that is your preference and allows us to be who we are with no artificial airs. It is important to me that it is a comfortable place for you. While I enjoy all types of places, I think the first place we go should allow us to communicate verbally and non-verbally so a loud rock concert or a dark movie is probably not a good idea to start with :).