Physically, financially, and emotionally fit redhead looking for a man with manners, a sense of humor, and a healthy sex-drive. Be confident, but not arrogant, hold open the door for me (I'm a sucker for manners), and please be over your past relationships and willing to explore the possibility of moving forward with a new one. Be real, be sweet, be strong, but also be soft when I need you to be.
My life is pretty simple. I don't own a passport, or travel the world (although there are a few countries I'd consider going to one day). I spend my time working, teaching fitness classes, and raising my kids. A great weekend for me is watching my kids play sports, running errands, and having a home-cooked meal with family or friends. I love occassional trips to the mountains (my SUV handles the snow wonderfully) or the beach, and I sometimes head east to visit family and friends, or west to Hawaii. I don't speak a second language, and even though I took 7 years of Spanish, just about the only thing I can do is ask where the bathroom is in Spanish. You are more likely to find me in flip flops and yoga pants, or boots and jeans then you will find me in a skirt and high heels.
What I can give you is someone who is loyal, funny, smart, and kind. I'm reserved at first, but promise I open up as my walls come down. It's a trust thing.....stick with me for a few dates to see what I'm really all about. I know what I want from a relationship (and what I don't want), and am willing to wait for the right guy. This isn't to say you must have all of the traits I am looking for. No one is perfect, but I'm willing to work towards a relationship that is perfect for us. Let's go slow, have fun, and allow a friendship to build while an amazing romance unfolds.
I teach fitness classes for two major health club chains as a hobby. It's a huge part of my life, and defines me in many ways. I get a charge out of helping members meet their fitness goals, as well as overcome other obstacles in their lives through fitness. They remind me that fitness isn't always about what you see improving on the outside; but also what's improving on the inside, and making that human connection in class with other members. I am honored that they allow me to be a part of their journey, and realize I learn as much from them as they do from me. I have some members that have been loyal to my classes for years, and I am humbled by that every time they show up to my class. I also work full-time for a medical technology company in middle management. I get paid well and love what I do. I have my own money, and already have all the kids I need (if you bring kids to the relationship that's great!), so I simply want you for you.
I'm also a single mom to 13-year-old twins. I try to be involved in my kids' lives as much as possible. Lately, I have taken too much time for others, and not enough for myself, so I am looking for someone for me to spend time with.........to be "Wendy" and not just "mom".
As far as dating - I only date one man at a time, once we determine that the attraction is there. I don't need you around all the time, as I need my space, so if your job takes you places, or keeps you busy, that's okay. I understand a man's need for space in your "man cave", so I'm not the kind of girl who is going to be checking in on you or texting you constantly. If you occasionally reassure me that you're still there, and simply busy or taking time, then we will get along great.