I teach fitness classes for two major health club chains as a hobby (the best hobby ever!), and work full-time for a medical technology company in middle management. I get paid well and love what I do. I'm also a single mom to two great kids who just turned 13 (twins boy and girl). My autistic son just joined a football league and I never miss a practice or game. I'm incredibly proud of him. He's never had success in team/organized sports, and the first few weeks were pretty rough on us both. He wanted to quit every day, but we managed to stick it out and continue on. I say "we" because I was out on the field running laps with him when he was convinced he couldn't take another step. It has been a life-changing event for the both of us. Having an autistic son has humbled me beyond words and has helped me realize that life doesn't always go as you planned, and never to judge others based simply on what you see. I would appreciate a man who sees the world through similar eyes.
I'm also a volleyball league coach for my daughter, and a girl scout troop leader. I like to participate in activities in my free time that allow me to spend time with my kids, while also making a positive impact on the community around me. I definitely missed my calling in a profession serving others. It's where I find my center and purpose. But since I can't at this point change my career, I fill that need by volunteering.
A few things I can't live without: exercise (serious exercise like Insanity for instance), occassional trips to the Sierras, high-heeled boots and short skirts (a great first date outfit ;-)), dark chocolate, teaching fitness classes (cycle and BodyPump), my dog (I literally rescued her off the street), and my morning coffee (I get a migraine if I don't have it each morning).
As far as dating - I only date one man at a time. If you are the right man....one is enough. I try to be low-maintenance in a relationship and like to keep things fun.....dinner, breakfast, weekend trips to Tahoe, or whatever you are up for is fine with me. Even running errands is fun with the right guy. It's the company that makes it all fun. I understand a man's need to be with his guy-friends, and his need to spend time in his "man cave". You are free to go there whenever needed....I promise I won't follow and will be waiting when you are ready to return.
I am looking for a guy who is fit emotionally and physically, and knows what he wants (translated: your heart isn't somewhere else). Financial security is also a plus. I am not materialistic, but I try to be responsible with my money and I hope you are too. I like confident, but not arrogant men, and I really adore men with manners. You should be an animal lover, as I am one myself. I adore men with a great sense of humor, so if you can make me laugh, then I bet we will get along great. Looks count up to a point, but it's the personality that really makes a person shine.
I prefer to meet you in person sooner than later. I am not interested in texting back and forth for weeks. I have found that you can't tell much about a person and their true personality until spending some time with them. Please don't ask me to send you "personal" pics of myself, or dirty-text with you. I consider myself a classy girl, and believe that there is a place and time for that sort of stuff, and it's not until after we meet and are exclusive. I promise I'm worth the wait >:-) Thanks for understanding.
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