I am interested in dating and possibly finding someone I can settle down with some day. I'm realistic and don't look for a "husband" in every guy I date. But I'm also not looking for quicky hook-ups or someone who'll play games. That being said, I love to laugh (I know, that sounds generic). But really I find a witty or sarcastic sense of humor very attractive. I am looking for a guy who is physically attractive, but more importantly, likable. By likable I mean: confident (not arrogant), funny (not immature), open-minded, family-oriented, financially stable (I in no way mean rich, I mean someone who can stand on their own two feet even when times get tough), likes music, isn't superficial, is moral and ethical.
As for me, I think I have a lot to offer someone who is willing to take the time to get to know me. I'm definitely a jeans and t-shirt kind of girl. But every once in a while it's nice to get all dolled up to go somewhere. I have a sarcastic sense of humor, and I probably drop more f-bombs than are considered to be "lady like" :-) I have a large and loud (1/2 Italian) family, one that still gets together for the old fashioned Sunday dinners every other weekend or so. I spent two years living in NorCal, recently returning to SoCal because I missed home and family. I love, love, love all kinds of music. I know people often say that, but I really do listen to a pretty wide variety of music (modern/classic/indie rock, blues/jazz, hip-hop/some rap, pop, classical/opera, Motown, etc). I spent 5yrs as a volunteer firefighter with CDF when I was younger, which was such an awesome time in my life. I've been a police dispatcher for 10yrs now and really like what I do (most of the time lol). I have 9 tattoos and will likely get more.
**P.S. If one of your pictures is of you flexing shirtless in front of a mirror, don't waste your time here. I'll pretty much just laugh and move on to a man who wants a relationship with someone besides himself. If your profile is blank other than you putting "Just ask me", that's not mysterious it's lazy (you've already been asked, it's there in print). Or better yet, if you have one pic of you from a distance and all the rest are of your nice car or other flashy "things", don't complain that you're unable to find a woman who isn't materialistic or fake. Seriously, who do you THINK you're attracting with all that? And no "420 friendly" please.