I believe I can fly. Have you ever soared with another? When one door closes does another one open? If you want to speak with another do you make an effort to? Or are you a button clicker here with no intention of following up or meeting anyone? Are you here to meet a man or playing a game? Do you walk the walk or just talk the talk? Please if you don't know what it is you're looking for don't bother to look over here. I need a woman who walks the walk and doesn't just talk the talk. Is that you? I'm finding many here aren't emotionally available. Are you?
I'm looking for that "one" Princess who is geographically available and desirable and her elevator goes to the top floor. This is proving difficult finding a woman whose cork fits back in the bottle. Are you a Drama Queen? Keep your pucker unpuckered. Judgmental? Scratch me off. Still irregularly dysfunctional? Not for me! I need a woman of substance. You know - with a bit of depth? Face-to-face needs to occur - little things like body language, your eyes and the twinkle in them, your laugh and your smile. Important? We'll never know where the path will lead until that first step is taken.
I am me, not perfect nor will I be. We should be "about" not "at" each other and not out to change each other. I believe this, "You know what you know when you know it." I find that particularly true in establishing a relationship. You'll know and so will I. I'm an eye contact person. The eyes speak louder than words. Do they sparkle as your mouth moves? I tell the truth. I guess my question is, "Are you worth knowing?"
My lady needs to be my best friend. Intimacy is important, not just sexual intimacy but the inner soul tingling kind. We need to have each others best interests at heart to make things work. A kiss is a kiss but speaks volumes. Am I a good kisser? Having never kissed myself I'll have to let you be the judge of that. Yes, I also have a sense of humor honed by 23 years of service in the US Army. My waters can run deep at times too. Dive in, the waters fine and I really don't bite - just nibble.
Are you a woman who isn't afraid to show that she loves a man emotionally, physically, and spiritually? If we disagree we should resolve it, forget it and not carry it forward. Seeing everything eye-to-eye might get a bit boring. Like to argue? I'm not your guy. I desire to live the remainder of my life in peace. If we disagree, I do expect you to tell me what the problem is. It can usually be fixed. I can fix a problem but not a person. I don't handle anger well so you need to know that.
I prefer to be a giver and need another giver in my life. You see "You Get By Giving." Works for me and I try to live that way. At times it has cost me dearly but it has not jaded nor changed my outlook, not being a "stuff" person. Takers wear me out. Somethings are more obvious than others so let me share a tidbit with you - never take more than you give. We all, at times, reach a point where we need the other person to unselfishly give of themselves and I will. It's called meeting the other person's needs and I will willingly do that. It needs to be mutual. If this paragraph scared you then best just run along now.
Like to cook? I do it well so maybe a little kitchen chemistry is in our future. It's a great place to flirt with each other and catch up on the day. I want a woman who wants what she has never had. That would be me. If you're involved with someone, or just into seeing how many men you can date at once, I can assure you that we won't fit. I desire to have The World's Greatest Love Affair.
It isn't better to lie and ask forgiveness. Try not to be judgmental, at least until you have walked a mile in the other person's moccasins and taken the time to know that person. I will treat you fairly so please treat me in the same manner. Did you notice the pic of the bike? Hope you enjoy riding, rallies and being around some really good people. There's a bit of my "bad boy" side coming out when I ride. Bad in a good way though. I drive safely but the "little boy" within me likes to come out and play. He can be quite an imp.
This needs to be about togetherness, not about "I" or "Me." Should we maybe talk? We'll never know what we're missing until we try. If I give you my number please use it or lose it. Should a woman call a man? Should a man call a woman? If you're interested drop me a line, send me your # or ask me for mine. Please save the Winks/Interested messages. If you're interested then lets talk. I don't do the IM thing here. I would rather we speak. Lets keep it uncomplicated and real. If you have lost your ability to compromise I'm not a good match for you because life sometimes requires it.
If you're already dating someone then pass me by. I have no desire to get in the middle of any love triangle or that form of higher math. That's not what I am looking for in a woman. Attention is nice and I'll shower you with attention and affection - just you though and not the circus. I don't act my age, look my age and you can't make me! So there!!!
I live in the today, the tomorrow and the future and try to ignore the rear view mirror. I have learned along the way but don't need to live it and relive it.
"Love is giving someone the power to destroy you...but trusting them not to." A perfect man isn't looking for a perfect woman.
If you have your settings set too strictly you'll have to contact me first so that I can reply. Go to "Edit Profile" and see what you "Mail Settings" are. If you say that we should meet or make me a favorite and your profile settings are off kilter there can be no contact on this site unless you also message me..
Wowzer! There seem to be a lot of women here who are 49. Is that 49 and counting or what?
Is it love at first sight or should I walk out and come in again?
If you're not a good woman looking for a good man then you might want to look elsewhere. I am a monogamous man and looking for the same in my woman. The ability to think outside the box you may find is an art. Try it and see what happens when you do! You may be surprised at where that takes you. Please don't come at me "sideways" because I don't take that well at all. I always assume I'm dealing with an adult and am finding out that might not always be the case. Do I speak my mind? Would you expect less?