Hi. Just to set the record straight I am in a strong, fulfilling polyamorous relationship. Not sure what polyamory is, Google it. Want to know more about it ask me. Don't believe in it or are close minded then move on please, we're not a good match. I am looking for a strong committed relationship in addition to the one I already have. I don't want to spend 24/7 with you or my girlfriend. There are 7 days a week, I spend 2-3 w/ my girlfriend and am looking for someones else to spend a couple nights of with. Not just for sex but dinners, movies, shows, just fun QT together. And yes, my girlfriend is quite aware of this, she also sees someone else and we communicate great and share everything.
I'm not picky and I see beauty in everyone but there are certain things I look for in a partner. I like tattooed, pierced and alternative looks. That's just what I am attracted to. I have many tattoos and piercings so if you like that great, if not, sorry we're probably not a match.
Honestly, I really find brunettes, redheads, or like some other colorful combination (pink, bright red, purple, etc...) Punk girls, pin up girls attractive.
Tattoos and body piercings catch my eye. Really all of that is rendered irrelevant if you have striking eyes.
Hopefully that doesn't come off superficial. I can find beauty in everyone but that's what I am physically attracted to. I like girls exotic I'm not into the Barbie Doll type, unless there is an unseen dark side.
Some guys are into the T or the A, I like E. If you have beautiful, pretty eyes of any color you might make me melt.
I am a law abiding, tax paying, voting, slightly conservative person yet I smoke marijuana and am pro choice, pro gay rights. I am not religious. I was raised Catholic but really don't believe any of that and consider myself Atheist. I am glad I was raised with religion. It taught me many good values and respect for all humans but I don't need it in my life anymore. I don't believe in ghosts either, only aliens.
I think one of the best things I have in life is being comfortable with my own death. I have a had 2 near death experiences and wouldn't trade them for anything. It is impossible to have a bad day when you have realized it could be your last.
I don't want to just sleep around with anyone and/or everyone but rather find a girl that I have a strong connection with. Sex with someone you're not compatible with is boring and a waste of time. I am extremely kinky and a bit dominant. If you don't consider yourself kinky and do not approach intimacy with an open mind we probably aren't a good match. I live by a strict "Don't knock it till you try it" policy. Not to sound arrogant but I can get laid whenever I want, I'm looking for more than that.
I'm up front, honest and speak my mind.
I like curves on a woman but also to be fit. I work hard to take care of my body and like a partner that does also.
I work a lot, am very social and have a lot of friends. I'm outgoing, confident and extroverted, not to an annoyance though.
If you want to meet an awesome guy that will make you laugh or make your jaw hit the ground because of my say whatever is on your mind honesty we might be a good match.
Oh yeah, I'm ultra optimistic, germaphobic and a bit O.C.D. None of them to an annoying level though.
Music you ask ?? All of it, well except for new country. I listen to everything from Brittany Spears to Motorhead but to name some faves: Greatfull Dead, Phish (yeah I am part hippie), HankIII, Amy Winehouse, Beastie Boys, Electronic, hip hop, metal, jazz, reggae, girl bands. Old school punk - Misfits, Circle Jerks, The Exploited, The Dead Kennedys. Hip Hop - Old School Gangsta Rap, Atmosphere, The Roots, Lil Wayne, Kanye West, Beastie Boys. Metal - Hellmouth, Iron Maiden, Slipknot, Cavalara Conspiracy, Rob Zombie, Old Metallica (pre Black Album), Black Sabbath. Country - Only Hank 1,2 & 3, Johnny Cash, Waylon Jennings, Willie Nelson, Merl Haggard. If you hand me a Toby Keith disc I will use it for a Frisbee.
My favorite is to see local Detroit bands at small bars. I don't have enough time to list every favorite show, movie or band I will get back to ya on that. I have been to over 300 shows, concerts and music festivals. I've been graced with the privilege of seeing 10 Dead shows w/ Jerry. UNFORGETTABLE!!!