I have decided to change this up considering I haven't had any luck on here in over 7 years. but im not gonna give up just because Im not willing to post a shirtless pic! I believe there are women out there that are looking for more than a douchebag with a six pack that is looking for nothing more than a fling on the side or another notch on his bed post!
I am extremely respectful, honest, and loyal! I have been single and have raised my 2 sons on my own since '97. I have a good job and a nice car. I am not looking for handouts!
I don't cheat
I don't abuse women
I don't drink
I don't do drugs. and yes...that includes pot, weed, 420, or any other name you potheads have for it, nor am I willing to date someone who does!
I don't go to bars
I don't lie
I am not willing to settle and I don't want someone who is. if I message you and you ignore me then as far as I am concerned you are not interested. I think ignoring someone is very rude and I don't have time for people like that. it only took 30 seconds out of your life to read the message and will only take another 30 seconds to tell me your not interested. I will kindly say thanks for replying and wish you good luck! I am not one of those guys that freaks out and demands an explanation or gets angry and vulgar because you are honest!
I am not on here looking for a hook-up or a friend with benefits. I haven't been with a woman in over 5 years and from that I have learned that I don't need it to survive. unlike most men that think its all that keeps them going. im not saying I don't want it at all because that's not the case. I have no problems in that department and if it comes to that, you wont have to worry about not getting enough! lol
I work 3rd shift, and I do understand that that makes things complicated.
so if there are any women out there that think they might still be interested then, by all means, say hello! I am an open book and im not afraid to answer any questions you may have truthfully and to the best of my ability!
thank you for reading and if I messaged you and your not interested then PLEASE just say so! good luck to you all and I hope you do find mr. right!
one more thing...POF limits men my age to contacting only those women that are 31 and older. therefore I am going to take advantage of that and if by chance I come across a profile of a woman that is 31 or older that catches my attention, I WILL make my interest known to them! I understand that may seem like a waste of time but there may be a younger woman out there that has an interest in older men and im not willing to miss out on that opportunity just because of a number! you may be surprised at how well you will be treated compared to someone closer to your age! but again, I understand if your not interested and will respectfully wish you good luck!