Okay, I have been on this site for almost a year.....and I have experienced some crazy stuff, so maybe I need to be a little more clear on what I am looking and NOT looking for:
1.) I'm not going to take a shower with you or sleep with you if you "offer" to fix my truck. If I was a "hooker" I'd go on a rich "who is ur daddy" site and travel the world with a rich old man! YES! I am that cute....I can get a rich old man!
2.) If you want to sexually admire my girl friend's body and tell me about it or sleep with her, please join a swingers site! Don't contact me....I'm not a swinger nor are my girlfriends!
3.) If you are sleeping around, I don't want your STD.....keep going to the doctor! They can help you!
4.) If you have a police record, we will not get along, I use to be a cop!
5.) If you cannot communicate, my college education will not help us! It's a 2 way street....
6.) I'm sorry that God made me tall....its not my fault....I will not date guys shorter than me (I have in the past and its an issue with them), plus I like to wear heels....Sorry if that is shallow and you think I'm a ****....its no different than NFC! Remember that bumper sticker?!!!!
7.) I don't like DRAMA and will run at the first sign of it.....if your X or X's or your "baby mama" is stalking you and running your life, please don't contact me!
8.) If you are just crazy in general and need a slew of meds to keep you going, I cannot help you and you cannot be my "project"!
9.) If you lack confidence, my personality will be WAY too strong for you! I call a spade, a spade and did 8 years in the Military, they don't care about "feelings" so I need a NO BS, No sugar coating kind of guy!
10.) I am an outdoorsy kind of girl, if your idea of eating chips and bon bons on the couch is "active" please go find a lazy girl.....that isnt me and I don't respect lazy peeps!
11.) My profile reflects where I am in life, if you are looking for a "booty call" or casual "friends with bennies" I'm past that stage in life....be honest, be real, be a man! Nothing wrong with friends with benefits if that is what you both are looking for.....I'm not and not sure how to make that more clear! Plus, I can get laid anywhere, thats the easy way out for me....
12.) I am interested in living life with someone and spending quality time enjoying life (ei, roadtrips, traveling), if you are working 3 jobs to supports your young children, I admire you, but thats not where I am....its not the path I choose, please be financially stable and have time for fun....
13.) No offense if you think that love will find its way across two oceans, okay hello....!!! Hate to break it to ya, that is Hollywood...!!!!!.......if you don't live within a 45 min drive, I wont even consider dating you or having a "texting" relationship....are we 20? No! Be local please......chemistry is everything and so is quality time....I travel for work, not hopping on a plane to go meet someone.....like sleepless in seattle, I think i just puked in my mouth.....LOL
14.) If you lie to make yourself look or feel better, I will find out eventually and completely lose respect for you! Be honest about who you are....
15.) We all want the same thing in life, friendship, butterflies, chemistry, respect, admiration, loyality, love.....if we meet and I dont feel it, I will tell you! I wont waste your time, dont waste mine....!!!
Why am I so blunt? Because I actually know what I want.....and men cannot read between the lines nor can they read my mind.....at least I'm on here being real even know its harsh....life is short, I dont have time to play games!
If you get this.....and not offended (please no hate mail, I just laugh and delete it) then send me an email.....good luck in your search.....there is somebody for everyone....you just need to find it!