Well here I am, back again trying to find my other half. But I refuse to settle for my other quarter. Who wants to be 75% happy? I enjoy meeting new people, I don't even mind the awkward first date. While I do want the heart stopping date, I do enjoy the train wreck dates. They are usually a great story to tell. I am past my wild partying days, but that doesn't mean I want to stay home all day everyday. I am easy going, and fun to talk to. I can carry on and enjoy an intelligent conversation. Enough about me though, let's save something for our first conversation.
I think the best way to get to know someone isn't through millions of messages. Let's get to know each other at a quiet bar, over coffee, or over some appetizers. After spending 30 minutes with someone, I usually have a decent idea if I want to pursue it further. You can see someone's true colors much easier in person compared to endless messages.
I can't believe I have to say this, but do not send me one word messages. I don't care if you look like Mila Kunis, I will not respond. All I ask for is just a little effort, because trust me I am worth the 5 minutes it takes to write a message.
Well, every first date should be different. Let's figure that out together. But I am the one paying, I'm old fashioned like that.