I am a single mom of 3 kids (10,12 & 14)........are you still there? lol ;-) My kids are great, but they are kids.....they have needs and wants and sometimes that trumps what I may need or want......means you may come second once in awhile and if you are already a single dad then you understand what I'm talking about. My free time happens on the weekends when the kids are with their dad which leaves me open to indulge and have some fun. I can do that with or without you......trust me on this, you want a woman that can stand on her own and doesn't "need" you, but rather wants you and seeks you out to compliment and/or share interests and experiences. I am a woman that you can take out for a nice dinner or a gala event, but I'm also the girl that will sit on the couch (or bar stool or even stadium seat!) and watch the Giants (woohoo!) or Warriors (huge fan....huge!) or March Madness. I'm pretty outgoing and outspoken, perfect for being a sports fan ;-) If you don't like a woman that speaks her mind then I'm definitely not for you! I have a bit of a sarcastic side and love to laugh. I'm pretty open when it come to music; poetry with a beat.....anywhere from rock, to country, to some reggae or R&B (live concerts are always fun). I love a man that cooks for me (or with me too!). There is a lot more and I could go on, but you should just message me and find out.....that's how we discover more about each other (conversation....communication :-) and if we at least have enough in common to enjoy spending time together. From there it could lead to a friendship or lover or both......I'm not going into this with expectations other than simple respect. Keep it real with me and I will do the same :-) No pressure, no worries, let's just see where it goes first, ok? phew! Glad we got that awkward conversation over! lol See, I don't bite.....well maybe, but that would come later ;-)
Our first actual encounter will probably be a meet and greet right? We would've had coffee (or tea) or drinks and chatted. So first date, real date I'd love for you to plan. I am usually the planner, the one that takes charge and gets things done (raised as a strong independent woman and being a single mom that tends to happen). Put some effort into our first date and I will do the same....it doesn't have to be fancy or extravagant, just has to show you put a little bit of thought (maybe some heart) into it :-) Could be something we plan together, you pick the spot and I pack the lunch? It just needs to be fun and relaxed.....we work hard all week (yes, this does mean you having a job is key to this working) and deserve a great time out with a lot of laughs and smiles!