Have you guys ever wondered why we all go through all of the stuff we do...go to the bar...hope to meet someone cool...get rejected...and then try again with the next one...?? Did you ever think it would just be nice to just meet someone fun, cool and accepting....someone that gets you, could make you smile, and is exciting to be around. Then when you do....you wonder if this is just a phase, will it be like this after you really get to know them...??
I'm only saying all this because I've gotten to this point in my life that I feel I deserve to be with a man that understands this same feeling...I'm not looking for the perfect man...I'm looking for the perfect match to me...someone with similar lifestyles, interests and goals. You're not going to change your views or ideas, nor am I...maybe improve on them, and be able to see things from a different point, but you are who you are, and I the same. The best we can hope for is to find that person that we want to wake up to, kiss each day, and be part of their happiness.
Adjectives of a man for me:
supportive, responsible, emotionally mature, life- expanding, cherishing, protective and attentive
Adjectives that describe me:
spontaneous, enthusiastic, idealistic, extroverted, theoretical, emotional, relaxed, friendly, optimistic, charming, helpful, independent, individualistic, creative, dynamic, lively, humorous, full of zest for life, imaginative, changeable, adaptable, loyal, sensitive, inspiring, sociable, communicative, erratic, curious, open, vulnerable.
why she's is perfect for you. Pick her up & tickle her till she can barely breath, she'll scream & fight you, but secretly she'll love it. Protect her. Hold her hand when you talk to her. Look at her like she's the only girl you ever want to be with. When she least expects it, pull her in close & kiss her hard. Tell her she looks beautiful. Get her mad, then kiss her. Let her fall asleep in your arms. Call her. Give her piggy back rides. Kiss her forehead. Be slow. Don't push anything. Make her feel loved. Kiss her in the rain. And when you fall in love with her.....
do you believe in love at first sight?? or should i walk by again?
I'm an out of the box kind of girl.....Drinks, dinner and a movie are nice, but not the best way to get to know someone.
I enjoy adventure, anything in or near water, and someplace we can actual get to know each other.
First dates are the much dreaded but necessary first step in meeting someone. I would love to go to dinner and a comedy show or a concert. The cliche long walk on the beach wouldn't be bad either. I think good conversation that comes easy and flows freely is the key to a good first date, maybe a few drinks wouldn't hurt either :) A first date shouldnt be an uptight interview. It should be fun and exciting. A guy who shows up with a clean shirt and a bouquet of beautiful flowers might score some points right out of the gate as well! ;)