I am a 61 year old guy. I am single, self employed, very experienced and mature.
I have been married twice and have had many relationships – some great, some not as much.
After having lived an interesting, busy, crazy, all over the place, incredible, hard, improbable, and unusual life, I really know what I want in terms of dating and being with someone.
I am not interested in a committed relationship. I am too busy, too wise and too independent to commit to a relationship. Been there and done that and it is no longer for me.
In a relationship I want affection, closeness, the tremendous power that sex and sexuality gives us. I want clarity in a relationship. I want a situation that is intimate and passionate but free, so that commitment and pressure and drama does not stifle a delicious, supportive, sexy, sensual, fun relationship.
I am a very busy person running my business and living a great single life. I am not the uptight, materialistic, traditional and conservative type. A bit the other way. I am not into following the established values that society or religion dictate. I am very respectful of anyone’s beliefs and ideas but most of my life I have lived by values that are not the traditional type of “be good, make lots of money, meet the pretty girl, get the big house, retire and be happy ever after”, if you know what I mean.
I love my dog. I love hiking. I hike constantly. I am very handy and have traveled a bunch.
I hope there are people around here with the same, views, aims and desires.
See you soon!
First date should be relaxed and pretty informal. A walk, a hike, coffee or a drink all work for me.