Let me start by saying that I am not here looking for sex. I will not reply in your favor to any kind of sexual advance you throw at me. Don't get me wrong, I love sex, but please....do NOT assume that I will go along with any sort of dirty talk or that I am here just to hook up.
Anyway, I am a huge movie buff and can answer most movie trivia questions you throw at me. This does not mean I have seen every movie known to man nor that I want to see every blockbuster that everyone is talking about. I like comedies, some dramas, some action films, and some scary/creepy. I do love cooking shows and trying new recipes.
I loathe small talk. It's so fake and forced.
Music: My taste in music ranges from Punk to Flamenco . Though my music selection is diverse, my preference the last several years has been rock. Classic rock that is as well as punk and heavy metal. I saw the divine Ms. Joan Jett live a couple of years ago and that's what has switched my musical tastes big time. I mean I've always loved this music but now it's all I listen to. Led Zeppelin, The Who, The Stooges, The Runaways, Heart, Kiss, Motley Crue...you get the picture. 4 of those bands I've seen live. Care to guess?
Well I'd like to go somewhere relatively quiet in order to hear each other talk because this is the time we're getting our first impressions and seeing if we like each other enough to go on a second date. I think dinner and a couple of drinks is enough time to really know if you want things to go further; it is for me anyway. I don't like to do any 'activities' i.e. Bowling, dancing, etc. on the first couple of dates because I'm usually still a bit shy and won't feel comfortable enough just yet to start 'lettin loose'. Haha. But it's ok if you only feel comfortable with just the drinks part, I'm flexible.
And...I'd like to add this: I do not expect you to dress head to toe in Armani on the first date but I'd like to see that you put some thought into what you wear when we meet. Know this: I have put effort into what I'm wearing so I'd appreciate the same from you. Please don't think I'm being a snob here, but the last couple of first dates I went on showed up in shorts and sandals. I suppose that sort of attire is acceptable if we were to meet at a volleyball game or a pool party. Again, I just ask for a little effort.