If your interested, please make sure you let me know by sending me a message instead of just an "wants to meet you." I'll only respond if a message is sent to me. I'm open to dating guys who live in Orange County, anywhere else is too far due to traffic. In the past I have mostly dated outside of my race. However, I am open to dating any guy that might be a good match for me.
I'm too young to settle, and too old to play games. I've settled several times in the past. All I got to show for it was lost time. I'm not going to make that mistake again. With that said, I'm dedicated to my happiness, and hope that you're dedicated to yours.
You have to respect that my profile has been written as honest as possible in hope that I will find someone who is the right match for me. I figure if you like me, and we seem to be a match - great. If you don't, then move on :) I don't care for guys with tattoos and piercings all over their bodies... Let's be real, it's not presentable, and it could mean you may not care about your future. I have no tattoos, and think more than a few is excessive. I don't date guys younger than age 30. Randomly; I have two cats. So if you don't like cats, goodbye also. lol. Save us both some time. :)
I could be on of the most genuine people you've yet to meet. I am a down to earth, and enjoy the simple things in life. But of course, I love to have fun and try new things at least once. Born and raised in California. I've lived in Orange County for the last 13 years. I've been fully independent since I was 17 years. My biggest fear is losing my independence.
I graduated from CSUF. I currently work in the insurance field. I enjoy meeting new people. I like to travel when I can. Spend time hanging out with friends, and family. I love to laugh and have fun. Intellectual conversions. I go out and party once and a while, but I equally like relaxing at home too. I consider myself a well rounded individual. Some describe me as a old soul.
I am honest, caring, loyal, and can be introverted, and sometimes a wallflower as I like to observe what goes on in the world... and analyze it in my mind, without saying a word. Some think that I am a quiet person and maybe a little coy at first. There is a little bit of truth to that, but I am also very easy-going, but sometimes very passionate, and outspoken person in a good way. I'll tell it like it is with no sugar coating. Best of both worlds.
I'll do anything within my power to help those I care for. I choose to be kind. Kindness is a strength, not a weakness. If someone looses my trust, that's it, it's over.
I love all kinds of top 40 music. R&B is a favorite of mine. Misc. 90's. I'll listen to almost anything as long as it's catchy. My favorite singer since I was child, has been Mariah Carey. I have many other favorites, but she has been the most constant favorite for me. Let the haters hate. :op
History is my favorite subject, and I enjoy reading a lot of WW2 era books. Stories of survival. I also like drama and mystery books too. Every once in a while I feel like reading something fun. I like tv shows like Weeds, Breaking Bad, American Horror Story, Game of Thrones, True Blood, Shameless, How to Get Away with Murder, Empire, Bravo TV series, Tosh.o. Slapsick comedy movies are always a good time and a good laugh. Dancing, hiking, fresh air activities, festivals, concerts, movies, baking, cooking, wine tasting, museums, etc... are some of my hobbies.
Favorite food - it really depends on the day and where it's from.
I like to go to the gym 6 days a week. So a gym buddy is a plus, but not a must. Just understand I'll still go regardless.
I appreciate nice things, but I'm not a materialistic person. It's just stuff. I don't take myself too serious and I adapt fairly well. Yes, I do enjoy being in a relationship. Does that mean that I'm looking for one with anyone I meet? No. I would like to just see if we have chemistry, and where it goes from there, and have a good time.
Now the next thing I have to say, I 100% hate that I have to write this... But I guess I do on POF's site as there are multiple offenders that I've had to block. I'm not into ghetto guys or thug love... Yuck... Don't even msg me. I will not respond. No thank you... :op :o)
Matter of fact if you are out of the OC area, to be honest I'll likely not respond as I'm looking for someone within a 15 mi or less radius.
I'm also looking for new friends. I'm ready to live life, and take on a new adventure.
Please msg me if you think that you'll be a good match. I'm a stable hardworking person. Most of all, I prefer guys who have their stuff together, responsible, who are positive, caring, kind, appreciative, thoughtful, adventurous, must be romantic, and have good things going for them and want the best for those around them. No mother issues please - That includes mama's boys (it's a turn-off for women). If I'm going to give you my time and respect, you need to do the same for me. I'm all for equality. However for me, I only want to date straight men. I was catfished by an ex, and he has a crazy bi-polar personality, smh. No guys with drama. Believe me, they are out there. I'm done with drama kings. lol.
I've had several relationships that were a year +. I'm into men, not boys... and I'm tired of people who play games - b/c I do not play games. Serious inquires only. I date guys of all races. I look forward to talking to you soon :o)
Conversation Starters (i.e. what you'd like to do on a first date...)
I'm an easy going person, so whatever feels right for the moment is a go. I'm always up for an adventure. I live for trying new things.
Guys know that chivalry goes a long way. It's so rare nowadays when women meet a true gentleman ~ that's it's like a fresh breath if air. It's no necessary, but it is very much appreciated, as chivalry has slowly started to die out with many men. It'll immediately set you aside from 90% of the single men population. Any guy who goes the extra step, gets major respect in my world ~ and I'll make sure to return that act of kindness.