li_swmlooking: "arouse my intellect as well as my loins"
Non-Smoker with Average body type
Medford, New York
53 year old Male, 5' 10" (178cm), Non-religious
Caucasian, Aries
li_swmlooking is looking for a relationship.
Associates Degree

An Afternoon by the BBQ n Pool

I am Seeking a Woman For Dating
Needs Test View his relationship needs Chemistry Not Completed
Do you drink? Socially Do you want children? Does not want children
Marital Status Divorced Do you do drugs? No
Hair Color Mixed Color Eye Color Blue
Do you have a car? Yes Do you have children? No
Longest Relationship Over 10 years How ambitious are you? Ambitious
Pets Cat  

About Me
Seeking a lady who "arouse my intellect as well as my loins"..

I am just getting back out there after almost 3 years since my last relationship. I have no kids. I am divorced. That's "divorced" as in fully single, I not separated, living apart from anyone, not a cheater, and not still hung up on my ex. I am free and clear to navigate the relationship world.

I am an animal lover, be it cats, dogs, raccoons, birds, whatever. Pretty much like all kinds of music with the exception of rap (I often listen to house, dance and classic rock the most.) I am not much into sports but I do understand sports and will watch them. I enjoy watching movies mostly romantic comedies (allows me to believe happy endings 'are' possible.) I also enjoy like action, sci-fi, suspense, and animated movies. I can skip gore, horror or violence for the sake of violence movies (and yes, I have been known to watch a porn) If you happen to be a PC gamer lady, that would be a plus, but certainly not a deal breaker..

I have learned that the "real" things in life are not always what money buys, but what it can not buy. A walk on the beach taking in a sunset, a blanket under the stars, a skinny dip in the pool, staying in bed on a rainy day.. If you can keep a smile on my face, I will do whatever I can to make sure you are the queen of my life. I don't need a lady to cook, clean, or do my laundry. I have two hands, I am housebroken :) I open and hold doors for a lady. Bring her a rose, not because its a holiday or her birthday, but just because I thought about her during the day. I have my flaws, I am not 20 years old anymore so certainly no chippendale dancer. I did lose an eye a handful of years back (why many pictures of myself outside I seem to always be wearing sunglasses ). I don't consider myself out of shape, but do wish parts of me were better. Somethings I can't do anything about and some not at this time. But if one is more concerned about what is on the outside, time has a funny way of disappointing you.

I am looking for someone that likes to chill, enjoy a nice buzz together, walks on the beach / park, road trips to nowhere, to cuddle up on the couch to a movie and yes, at the risk of sounding like most guys, someone I can take by the hand , lead into the bedroom and enjoy ourselves. I am looking for someone that has very little taboo in the bedroom. I am loyal, honest, and I know how to treat a lady in public and as my Venus in private. I will do what I can to always make you smile, tickle your funny bone, to make you feel loved and missed when you are not around and to always be there to pick you up when you are down..

First Date
Either meet for a movie, cup of coffee, walk at a park/beach or better yet, home cuddled up watching a movie, glass of wine with some cheese, and let the mood take itself from there.. If all is well, I will be able to bring you the "perfect" coffee (or tea ) in bed in the morning...