If there is something you want to know just ask....... Ladies if I may be so bold. You ask that we not approach you in a simple way make it stand out but, the truth is we don't know each other and the proper way to approach anyone you don't know is a greeting (ie hi, hello, how are you, etc.... ) let's be real ladies, I could use lines on you but how real would that be. Can we try to be realistic about this its not brain science. I apologize in advance to any girl I may have offended with this statement. But it's meant for the women who understand the difference between fantasy and reality. Let's have a good conversation and if it's to your liking, who knows.....
I think a first date should be simple yet elegant I don't know the person well enough to make any extreme plans and honestly LOL.. I think any place (I.E. restaurants bowling maybe a game of pool) where we can have a couple laughs and talk is fine. Not at home I can do that while we are on the phone.