Please read my entire profile/novel. I am not your average girl but I am interesting and opinionated. I have read many other mens profiles stating that they want a soft spoken girl; that would not be me.
Second: I am not religious, I do not like sports or camping. I know that I have now reduced my chances for love to 1% of the worldwide male population.
What do I want: I am looking for someone who has interests in common with me. Someone who has life stories to tell and impart wisdom of a life that I have never experienced. I want to hear another persons story and share mine. I want to go to dinner parties again, read books and walk the farmers market, try new types of food and go on road trips. I want someone who has different interests, their own friends who is social and is not an introvert. I don’t mind a peaceful and retrospective type but I want a partner who is able to socialize. I am not a sports fan so I am sure that I have excluded about 95% of the male population. There is so much more to say but I don’t want to give away the plot of the story nor its exciting happy ending.
What do I like: I have always loved books, alternative music, food and art, but I could not name a famous novelist or painter to save my life. I love coffee houses but I always order tea. I love people watching and I am sure people watch me. I love to cook and find I am very content zoning out in a kitchen; finding great pleasure in watching another find my offerings delightful to the senses. I love to walk through used book stores and I refuse to use an online book; I love the feel of the pages and dog ears.
Where am I from? I grew up in a small town in Southern California. I lived a poor and sheltered life. I was lucky enough to have many wonderful people influence my life and open up the world for me. I had never tasted real butter until the summer of eighth grade. I hadn’t left my place of an impoverished city and lack of culture until I was in my 20’s. However, it made me the person that I am today; I appreciate life more so because of what I did not have growing up.
What is in my head? I work in a crazy industry, and work crazy hours. I very rarely get to enjoy life. I have now realized that all the craziness is not worth exchanging for my life. I am on the path to enjoying life and finding what’s important to me other than someone else’s business plan.
I am wondering where my creative muse went; perhaps locked up in my head. I would like to free her and follow my heart. I am on a path to lighten up my life and see what is in front of me.
Conversation Starters (i.e. what you'd like to do on a first date...)
Like to meet for coffee to see if first there is any physical attraction; yep sounds shallow but someone has to say it. Then....have a conversation hopefully not one sided and see what happens....I mean what happens in: Have a longer conversaton...two cups maybe 3 cups of coffee. Possibly cupcaking on the cell phone later....whatever the universe decides.