"I'm not hot or gorgeous. I don't have an amazing figure or a flat stomach. I'm far from being considered a model but, I'm me. I eat food, I have curves, I have more fat than I should, I have scars, I have a history. Some people love me, most like me, few hate me. I have done good, I have done bad. I love my PJ's and I go without makeup. I can be random and crazy. I don't pretend to be someone I'm not. I am who I am, you can love me or not. I won't change!! And if I love you, I do it with all my heart!! I make no apologies for the way that I am."
* I no longer smoke...however, there are times when I'm out with my friends for a few drinks and may have a cigarette or two. If this bothers you...sorry.
Anyone who knows me, (and by that I mean really KNOWS me) would tell you that they are shocked to find out that I am on a dating site. Being a social, interactive person…and partaking in something so…well to be honest…this anti-social would shock the people who are closest to me.
That being said, here I am. And why I stay is really beyond me. Perhaps it’s in the hopes that there really is one…yes “ONE” man on here that really is worth getting to know. There has to be at least one…but always the catch….Yes, he needs to be worth getting to know…then there are the visual aspects that I would hope for in a man. (If you read my previous profile….then you know my theory on the lists that we make, and why we make them) But truthfully, we all have one. Some more extensive than others….but for me visually, I like white men (sorry if this offends…just my preference), love light eyes… (hazel or green – sign me up)! Love a great smile...and nice teeth. I have to say that there is nothing sexier than a guy who shaves his head, except for maybe a redhead. I like a medium to stocky build…. (not to exclude you athletic boys. I’ll be the first to admit, you are nice to look at. But, realistically, I’m not athletic…and I’m humble enough to know that I’m probably not what you’re looking for... and really, that's ok, we all have our preferences,and truth be told...size does matter...doesn't it). I tend to shy away from Scorpio and Virgo zodiac signs...they just tend to be a little ridged for my easygoing personality. And if you’re worth getting to know then you would possess a positive (glass half full) way of thinking, no previous history of cheating, respectful, kind….blah blah blah. The things that everyone states that they are.
Enough about you. I’m really here to talk about me…right. Well, I’ll be as honest and forthcoming as I can be. I’m a divorced (twice) mom to three great kids (from my first marriage). I have a daughter who is 16, and two boys 14 and 11. Though my three little people are my priority, they are now at an age where they are off doing their own thing a lot, which leaves a little time for me. I work full time (regular business hours – Monday through Friday). I’m 5’4”, overweight – but working on that (btw, I chose “a few extra pounds” and not BBW because I’m really kind of in between… however, I did not consult the BMI index prior to filling out my profile….so…..if you are a person who can not find the beauty in a curvy woman, that’s cool, I’m just not your girl.) This should not be confused with being unattractive or lack of taking care of myself. Nothing could be farther from the truth.... I'm a classic Libra, and my apprearace is important to me. I’m happy more than I’m sad. I laugh way more than I cry. I see the silver lining to most situations. I know that we all face adversity, and its how we come out on the other side that defines us. I don't take meds to alter my moods, I'm not depressed, I enjoy life and all that it has to offer. I think that traveling is fantastic, and need to make time to do it more often. I'm not clingy or needy, I enjoy my time I set aside for myself. I'm not desperate for companionship, but honestly, it would be nice to have someone (the right someone...not just anyone) around to enjoy life's special moments. I think that there is so much more to life than seeking a relationship. Though I'm not looking for a quick hook up or a one night fling, it should be stated that I have a pretty big sexual appetite and particular interests that occur in the bedroom (or elsewhere), and would really need to be with someone who is the same, and enjoys a sence of adventure in the more intimate areas of life. If I have a deal breaker....this would be a big one! If you are shy or not open to play in the bedroom, we will not make a good match. Kiss me like you mean it...and like it's not under rated, because it's not (a great kiss doesn't need to involve choking me with your tongue, or removing my tonsils). I love the sun, and honestly really dislike the gray sky. I prefer the warm summer on the river, to the freezing winter on the mountain. I camp in the summer (when it's really warm) only to accommodate my children, if they didn't want to go...I would be fine never camping again. Honestly, my idea of roughing it is saying at a 3 star hotel instead of a 5. I do have a couple of small tattoos, but nothing that shows in my normal everyday clothes. I am a Christian, and attend church on Sundays, as well as small groups on Tuesdays. I serve our community regularly. That's me in a nutshell. If you're intrigued or want to know more, just send a message. I try to reply to everyone, as I think it's pretty disrespectful to just ignore someone....I think that there are a lot of diamonds in the rough out there, so I try my hardest not to judge a book by it's cover. That being said, if I don't respond, I apologize in advance, I am human.
I'd like to note that I'm not on here to play games or to somehow get caught up playing yours. My time is a precious commodity, and I would respect yours as the same.
I do wish you all the best of luck, regardless of what you're looking for...