I am currently going back to school to pursue my Psych degree (and Poli Sci degree for kicks) in order to work with children and/or adolescents with psychological maladies. I am an LA native (born, bred and raised Beverly Hills), who loves to enjoy everything that my wonderful city has to offer, from beach and aquatic activities to live theater, from my beloved Lakers to epicurean adventures at LA's finest restaurants. I love the easy and quick mini vacations I can take given LA's propinquity to Santa Barbara, San Diego, Vegas and many other locales. I am very well traveled, having visited many European countries (several more on a whirlwind adventure this summer), several in South America, and various tropical destinations. I am very creative and love to experiment with said creativity with everything from arts and crafts type activities to new inventions in the kitchen. I am very well read owing to a love of literature and summary intellectually stimulating conversation fostered by said love. But don't get me wrong, I'm not especially serious as I love to be silly and joke around! I am incredibly witty and confident about both my intellect, beauty and myriad of other skills. I expect the same in men. I am extremely outgoing, energetic and fun! You MUST be as well!
If you do not make the effort to come up with something to say that is more creative than "hello beautiful." "hey there," "sup sweetie," or "how u doin," I will not make the effort to respond. Oh and if you don't know the difference between they're, their, and there, it will never work. And yes, I am serious!
In case you have a problem reading, I apparently need to reiterate: I will not respond to "hey," "hi" "hello" with any iteration of "sexy," "baby," (I am NOT your or anyone else's baby, I am a 25 year old woman) or "cutey" (p.s. guys, the pronunciation on "cutty" makes it sound like you want to CUT me... no, I don't much think I'll be responding to that especially). Basically if you can't speak properly or seem to not have even a modicum of education, I won't waste either your time nor mine, because hey baby, it aint neva gonna work!
Well there are two options, both enjoyed equally...
The first finds me scooped up in the early afternoon for a hike along a spectacular view line, or sand castle building at the beach, or an activity that gets me out of my comfort zone, like ice skating (warning though, I am terrrrrrible at ice skating!!!) or laser tag. After a bit of aerobic activity, with talk that broaches topics from childhood exploits, to most embarrassing moment and thing you have done that you are most proud of, to politics and literature, across desires and simple joys, we would go and get a quick bite somewhere or coffee... In theory, this is the date that you want to keep going, and could even be furloughed into...
The second type of first date would be a lovely meal at a lovely restaurant, over fine red wine and quick fire witticisms. As the night would dwindle, the word play would become progressively more fun as we got to know each other better. The conversation would be full of cerebral and contemplative moments, but always in a teasing way full of the mellifluous sound of laughter. If you can't make me laugh, you're done before you've begun! After dinner, if in fact I did not suddenly have a friend who had been sent to the hospital on that, uh, well, emergency thing of hers, we might find ourselves at a cozy bar or lounge to continue the process of getting to know one another...
In the end, I love surprises!!!