I just turned 50 (look younger) and was widowed 5 years ago (cancer). It's time to start my life again. I am ready to laugh, love and be loved. As a Scorpio woman, I am very intense and passionate but that doesn't mean I am not silly and very funny too! My politics are liberal and I am involved in social activism so you can tell I am neither shy nor afraid of putting myself out there whether for something I believe in or for love. I am a strong, independent, smart woman, but this lioness really wants a lion to lead the way. I should mention that I am a lousy cook and don't like being around drunk people. I have more than a few extra pounds to lose. 5'2", full figured and voluptuous (very) are the right terms. Still, I take pride in my appearance, how I dress, etc. and am told I am pretty with golden eyes. I like lingere'. I'm as real and honest as they come and hope you are too.
If you read my profile and are interested, please write to me with more than just 2 or 3 words showing you actually read this profile. Just saying Hello, Hello Beautiful, or Hello Sexy will make me think you send out 100 messages like that a day. You want drama free? Lives are filled with drama---love, death, joy, sorrow. When people say drama-free, I think how boring life would not be without all the excitement, the slings and arrows of outrageous fortune, etc., though I am probably reading too much into it. You probably just mean no crazy stalkers, people tied to ex's, and dishonest people. All I can say is my life is filled with all kinds of drama---the stuff novels are made of, and I may just write a few one day! How does someone see the world for what it is and not feel the inspiration of special moments as well as the pain? I don't create drama but I see it all the time. Yes, I am a Scorpio woman. Scorpios look beneath the surface and are playful and fun loving.
I love men who can make me laugh. Smart and creative is a bigger turn on than power, money or looks. I seek true love with all the trust, great sex, laughter, and understabding that comes with a true partnership. If you want to get to know me, I prefer emailing through this site first..then chatting, etc. I am a trusting person but cautious for safety reasons as any woman should be. I am NOT INTERESTED in sexting, skype sex, phone sex or cyber sex. I am no prude (not at all) but its just not how I want to meet someone (once we have something special who knows plus special means there will be REAL sex which beats all of the others right?) If you are lying about your age, come clean right away and we're OK.. I am an honest person and expect no less from anyone else. If you are married, look elsewhere. If you are seperated, please be REALLY seperated (not living in the basement) and file those papers already!.
For a first date I think brunch or dinner works well. I am not a big drinker so bars are not my scene, and coffee seems too brief to really get to know someone. If you are really serious and want to impress me, flowers (even one, or silk, or glass, or a photo) are always great from the first to the umpteenth date. I'll return the special gift with something that feels right on the next date.