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I was widowed 6 years ago (cancer) and it's time to start my life again. I am ready to laugh, love and be loved. As a Scorpio woman, I am very intense and passionate but that doesn't mean I am not silly and very funny too! My politics are beyond what most people consider liberal and I am involved in social activism so you can tell I am neither shy nor afraid of putting myself out there for something I believe in or for love. I am a strong, independent, smart woman, but this lioness really wants her lion. I should mention that I am a lousy cook and don't like being around drunk people. I have more than a few extra pounds to lose. 5'2", full figured and voluptuous (very) are the right terms. Still, I take pride in my appearance, how I dress, etc. and am told I am pretty with golden eyes. I like lingerie', especially when it matches (on me, not you). I am real and honest and hope you are too.
If you are interested, please write to me with more than just 2 or 3 words showing you actually read this profile. You want drama free? Lives are filled with drama---love, death, joy, sorrow. How boring life would not be without all the drama, the slings and arrows of outrageous fortune, etc., though you probably just meant no crazy stalkers, people tied to ex's, and dishonest people. All I can say is my life is filled with all kinds of drama---the stuff novels are made of, and I may just write a few one day! I don't create drama but most of us live it all the time, right?
I love men who can make me laugh. Smart and creative is a bigger turn on than power, money or looks. I seek true love with all the trust, intimacy, laughter, and understanding that comes with a true partnership. If you want to get to know me, I prefer emailing through this site first..then chatting, etc. I am a trusting person but cautious for safety reasons as any woman should be. I am NOT INTERESTED in sexting, skype sex, phone sex or cyber sex. I am no prude (not at all) but its just not how I want to meet someone (once we have something special who knows plus special means there will be REAL sex which beats all of the others right?) If you are lying about your age, come clean right away and we're OK.. I am an honest person and expect no less from anyone else. If you are married, look elsewhere. If you are separated, please be REALLY separated (not living in the basement) and file those papers already!.
Nothing makes me happier than Broadway Shows, the Caribbean, and sharing myself in love.
Brunch or dinner works well. Coffee seems too brief to get to know someone. I am not a big drinker. Bars are not my scene but I guess they can be OK for a first meeting.unless they are too noisy and smell like stale beer. Going for a nice walk with our dogs is fun too, weather permitting.