Age: 40
Long Term
ToThineOwnself: BE TRUE!
Non-Smoker with A Few Extra Pounds body type
Bay area, California
42 year old Female, 5' 4" (163cm), Catholic
Caucasian, Pisces
ToThineOwnself is looking for a relationship.
Some University

I am Seeking a Man For Long Term
Needs Test Not Completed Chemistry Not Completed
Do you drink? No Do you want children? Want children
Marital Status Single Do you do drugs? No
Hair Color Red Eye Color Green
Do you have a car? Yes Do you have children? Yes
Longest Relationship Over 4 years How ambitious are you? Ambitious
Pets Other Second Language English

About Me

Where to begin. I am often told I look 7-10 years younger than my age, and that I have an Amy Schumer look about me. I have strawberry blonde hair, green eyes and I’m curvy in the right places, but still have my health goals. By nature I am hardworking, intelligent, creative, passionate, and fully commit to anything I fully give my heart to. I own my own home, and love house projects. I enjoy cooking and know how to throw a shin-dig when the occasion arises (sometimes I go way over board, as I love to have fun and share good times with friends and family). I am also a mother of a beautiful daughter (12), who keeps me motivated to be the best I can be. She truly has taught me what selfless unconditional love really is.

Why am I here and still single? I guess sometimes we hold onto things that are not good for us longer than we should. I truly give love my all!!! I’ve had my share of defeated romances, and I am truly ready now for the real thing: friendship, lover, passion, commitment; a happy relationship with someone who believes in me and loves me deeply, and who loves kids. I am ready to share my life with a man who will give his heart to me as I want to give my heart to someone fully who can return love. Life is too short to not share your life with someone special. I am seeking a man who is real. A best friend, lover, playmate, someone to grow old with, that doesn’t play games. I bring honest communication to the table and need the same in return. I am not looking for the perfect man, but one who knows how to love perfectly!

I am attracted to intelligence (I heart nerds but also Luke Dane/Rhett Butler types), but not arrogance, a man with beautiful eyes, and has a mischievous sexy smile, with a passion for life and a teddy bear heart, who works hard, but is truly a kid at heart! I am passionate about being passionate in life and in love. I need a man whose enthusiasm for living life with passion matches mine. Please be kind, have a loving touch, excellent kisser, thoughtful, funny with a good heart, and hardworking. I also love a man who is handy with tools, an ingenious Mr. Fix It, great grill mister and commitment minded. If you love to sing, are poetic, and can play an instrument that is a bonus!!! Ditto if you have kids, but not a requirement. (Please no lazy guys, looking for a Sugar Mama, commitment phobics or men with oversized ego's to mask their low self-esteem. I have a child, I want a man to be my equal and partner in life, who loves and protects his family).

Also, my relationship with God is important to me (I didn’t use to have one), but I am by no means a saint (nor a prude), nor do I feel the need to preach or convert anyone to my belief system. (I hate bible thumpers myself honestly, as they have an air of superiority that pushes others away). I am however hoping to find a man who also genuinely has a good relationship with God or a Higher Power, for what-ever your belief system/religion is. To me, most religions the principles are the same, and it’s the personal relationship with God/Higher Power you have that matters, not the title you put on it. Normally I wouldn’t bother to put that much detail into this area, but I guess it makes sense, if I am going to weed out the weeds when dating, and pick out a great guy! Who knows maybe I’ll get a little bit of help from upstairs. We’ll see!!! I hope you're out there somewhere!

First Date
Picnic on the beach, sharing a kiss!

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