I am here to find a man who already made his mark in the world, is close to retirement or retired (if a career, it is fun, rewarding with a lot of time off to travel so he's financially stable) and graciously has room for his forever best friend, lover, confidante, travel and outdoor activity partner. We both must be fit in mind, body and spirit to thrive together in discovery and adventure!
A loving, nurturing partner with same values, interests and who supports what I love to do would be a gift! It is important that he feels comfortable expressing his feelings in an open and loving way. I am easy going and awake early and happy, stay positive most every day! It takes a lot to get me down!
I love walking, running and cycling near the beach as our Pacific ocean grounds me. I miss outrigger and boogie-boarding in Hawaii, lived there 12 years. My favorite time of year is spring/summer as I enjoy gardening, landscaping, painting, photography and BBQ's. I have integrity, high-morals and I am loyal, sometimes a character with lots of banter and laughter! Chemistry is just that...and how does one dismiss it? See the goodness in others, why not? Time reveals a lot if one is patient.
Please do not be overweight, as I am attracted to slender and/or men in good condition who live an active life so we fit being together, you know?
I thrive living near the ocean and when I go, blessed to be there even if it's only for a few minutes to watch the surf! I click with watermen because they must be there too! Life lived with passion is key, family and friends paramount. It's the little things I marvel at...palm fronds purring through tradewinds, fragrant plumeria or night blooming jasmine wifting into my bedroom window, sandy toes, salt water shining on my skin, taste of scrumptious lobster or Opakapaka ...the five senses working at all times. I love walking, running and cycling near the beach as our Pacific ocean grounds me. I miss outrigger paddling and boogie-boarding in Hawaii. My favorite time of year is spring/summer as I enjoy outdoor sports, gardening and BBQ's. I have integrity, high-morals and I am loyal, love to laugh until my cheeks hurt! Chemistry is just that...and how does one dismiss it? I see the goodness in others, why not? A loving, nurturing partner with same values, interests and who supports what I love would be a gift. I hope to be your best friend and lover so a gift to you too! We can find out our idiosyncrasies and major differences after we meet.
I don't know what to put down as age limit because chronological age doesn't reflect energy, open-minded spirit, health or playfulness..uhmmm.
By the way, skeptical &/or critical and possessive men would be frustrated by my open exuberance, please stay clear of me.
WARNING: I have a lot of positive energy yet, know how to relax and do easily. I am not here to go through the motions so I cut to the chase.
Let's be BOLD, FEARLESS when it makes sense. PLEASE do not contact me if you are overweight, smoke or use to smoke.
A 2nd generation native Californian, young surfer girl who raised her 2 children in Hawaii (daughter born there) yes, much slower pace and thank God!
11 of the 13 climactic zones on the Big Island. The kid in me reignited by living there for 12 years and I'm blessed for it! There are hidden "hole-in-the-wall" cafes with phenominal food, unique ambiance that rival major hotels in Hawaii. I'm wild about fabulous food ! A prerequisite for my future lover and life partner ! We all know healthy, exquisite or simple food is nurturing and sexy too, don't we ?
There is more sensuality in every molecule of air in Hawaii and Tahiti than should be legal ! If one could gift wrap it, send via our WWW...we'd all be smitten and IN LOVE ! POF would crash with a LOVE aka ALOHA VIRUS from the tropics !
**P.S. I come from a long line of entrepreneurs, comfortable taking calculated risks. I'm an asset in Business Ventures and I'm blessed to be an
idea person ! If we are not a match, I am always open to sharing ideas, concepts and knowledge !!
THE LIST BELOW WAS CREATED MOSTLY FROM MESSAGES TO ME BY POF MEMBERS…
MOTIVATED TO FIND MY ONE AND ONLY MAN !
i love a man who is slim, intelligent, funny or has a good sense of humor, open emotionally, responsible, respectful of all people in all situations, thoughtful, big-hearted, can forgive and forget !!! A relationship is based upon trust and feeling safe with one another to be able to share our concerns, even our weaknesses so we can compliment one another.
If you don't have all these attributes, it's OK there might be one that is not a deal breaker !!! ~ tee, hee
I must add…these standards aren't that high, afterall my brother, male cousins and uncles live up to them! Gee whiz
1) Love the Pacific Ocean and going to Hawaii with me (calming atmosphere)
2) Outdoors Guy active in sports!
Do you like biking, hiking, kayaking or outrigger to name a few? I like golf and tennis too.
Be honest about your weight/height (I prefer over 5' 9" sorry~I like wearing heels)
No tats, piercings or chubbiness please.
Major turn offs~Overweight, Lazy, Arrogant, Strong cologne, Gold necklaces, Diamond jewelry on men, Foul jokes/language.
3) Be funny and engaging as that is SEXY to me LOVE PHOTOS WITH SMILES on you guys ! GREAT KISSER is mandatory!
4) Intelligent yet, humble and inquisitive, knowing you can't possibly know everything
5) Strong ethics and morals, a family man!
6) Thrilled that I am also intelligent with creative ideas
7) Never a dull moment since watching me go about my day can be funny, if you let it
8) Adventurous wanting to travel, explore new destinations, try new experiences
9) I can be independent and carefree so love us to have separate experiences to share when we reunite
It will keep intrigue and a fresh personal perspective BUT, still want a continuous intimate and close relationship
10) Absolutely love classic rock-n-roll, Stones/Doors/Pink Floyd/Steppenwolf/Beatles/RIghteous Bros/Bob Marley so reggae & jazz, classical, R&B, POP and country. CRAZY about LIVE CONCERTS ! ! !
11) A gentleman with a loving nature and a clean, shaven face (around the mouth bristles scratches my face, trimmed mustache ok)
12) Conservative/Independent politically; minimum government, flat/fair tax, eliminate waste, outside agency audits government programs, transparency
of all programs, Senate & Congress income/expense reports disclosed via internet ie. Canadian Parliament has accountability of leaders
LIMIT PUBLIC SERVICE to 4 years in Congress and Senate (w/technology and efficiency it's very doable)
MUST HAVE SAME MEDICAL AS ALL U.S. CITIZENS and ZERO PENSION…give me a break!
What makes the most sense for the two of us at the time!
Initially, we just want to see if we "hit if off" and that should be over the telephone,
why bother to meet if a few conversations don't flow smoothly and/or if we find we aren't a match?
Coffee houses are fraught with other singles meeting, arghh.
I've got great ideas for much later and longer dates but you should have more than I do and initiate them if we hit it off!
The cars are not mine!!! Too bad we can't take a spin in them.
Sweet dreams and ALOHA.
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