I am here to find a man who already made his mark in the world, is close to retirement or retired (if a career, it is fun, rewarding with time off to travel so he's financially stable) and graciously has room for his forever best friend, lover, confidante, travel and outdoor activity partner. We both must be fit in mind, body and spirit to thrive together in discovery and adventure! I am drawn to intelligence, wit, a great sense of humor and an outdoorsy guy who loves meeting new people and seeing new places.
A loving, nurturing partner w/ same values, interests and who supports what I love to do! He feels comfortable expressing his feelings in an open and loving way. Hope he is easy going and awakes early and happy, since I do. He stays positive most every day! It takes a lot to get me down!
I love walking, running and cycling near the beach as our Pacific ocean grounds me. I miss outrigger and boogie-boarding in Hawaii, lived there 12 years. My favorite time of year is spring/summer as I enjoy gardening, landscaping, painting, photography and BBQ's. I have integrity, high-morals and I am loyal, sometimes a character with lots of banter and laughter! Chemistry is just that...and how does one dismiss it? See the goodness in others, why not? Time reveals a lot if one is patient.
Please do not be overweight, as I am attracted to slender and/or men in good condition who live an active life so we fit being together, you know?
I thrive living near the ocean and when I go, blessed to be there even if it's only for a few minutes to watch the surf! I click with watermen because they must be there or near water! Life lived with passion is key, family and friends paramount. It's the little things I marvel at...palm fronds purring through tradewinds, fragrant plumeria or night blooming jasmine wifting into my bedroom window, sandy toes, salt water shining on my skin, taste of scrumptious lobster or Opakapaka ...the five senses working at all times. I love walking, running and cycling near the beach as our Pacific ocean grounds me. I miss outrigger paddling and boogie-boarding in Hawaii. My favorite time of year is spring/summer as I enjoy outdoor sports, gardening and BBQ's. I have integrity, high-morals and I am loyal, love to laugh until my cheeks hurt! Chemistry is just that...and how does one dismiss it? I see the goodness in others, why not? A loving, nurturing partner with same values, interests and who supports what I love would be a gift. I hope to be your best friend and lover so a gift to you too! We can find out our idiosyncrasies and major differences after we meet.
I don't know what to put down as age limit because chronological age doesn't reflect energy, open-minded spirit, health or playfulness..uhmmm.
By the way, skeptical &/or critical and possessive men would be frustrated by my open exuberance, please stay clear of me.
WARNING: I have a lot of positive energy yet, know how to relax and do easily. I am not here to go through the motions so I cut to the chase.
Let's be BOLD, FEARLESS when it makes sense. PLEASE do not contact me if you are overweight, smoke or use to smoke.
A 2nd generation native Californian, young surfer girl who raised her 2 children in Hawaii (daughter born there) yes, much slower pace and thank God!
11 of 13 climactic zones on the Big Island. The kid in me reignited living there 12 years and I'm blessed for it! There are hidden "hole-in-the-wall" cafes with phenominal food, unique ambiance that rival major resorts. I'm wild about fabulous food ! A prerequisite for my future lover and life partner ! We all know healthy, exquisite or simple food is nurturing and sexy too, don't we ?
There is more sensuality in every molecule of air in Hawaii and Tahiti than should be legal!!!
**P.S. I come from a long line of entrepreneurs, comfortable taking calculated risks. I'm an asset in Business Ventures and I'm blessed to be an
idea person ! If we are not a match, I am always open to sharing ideas, concepts and knowledge !!
THE LIST BELOW WAS CREATED MOSTLY FROM MESSAGES TO ME BY POF MEMBERS…
MOTIVATED TO FIND MY ONE AND ONLY MAN !
I love a man who is in active/in shape, intelligent, funny/sense of humor, open emotionally, responsible, respectful of all people in all situations, thoughtful, big-hearted, can forgive and forget !!! A healthy relationship is based upon trust, feeling safe w/one another to share concerns, even weaknesses so we grow from them, also compliment one another.
If you don't have all these attributes, it's OK there might be one that is not a deal breaker !!! ~ tee, hee
I must add…these standards aren't that high, afterall my brother, male cousins and uncles live up to them! Gee whiz
1) Love the Pacific Ocean and going to Hawaii with me (calming atmosphere)
2) Outdoors Guy active in sports!
Like biking, hiking, kayaking, water skiing, SUP or outrigger? Golf or tennis?
Your weight/height (I prefer over 5' 9" sorry~I like wearing heels)
No tats, piercings or chubbiness please.
Major turn offs~Arrogant, Overweight, Lazy, Strong cologne, Gold necklaces, Diamond jewelry on men, Foul jokes/language.
3) Funny and engaging as that is SEXY, LOVE PHOTOS WITH SMILES on you guys ! GREAT KISSER mandatory!
4) Intelligent yet, humble and inquisitive, knowing you can't possibly know everything
5) Strong ethics and morals, a family man is cool!
6) Thrilled that I am also intelligent with creative ideas
7) Never a dull moment since watching me go about my day can be funny, if you let it
8) Adventurous wanting to travel, explore new destinations, try new experiences
9) I can be independent and carefree so love us to have separate experiences to share when we reunite
Keeps intrigue, a fresh perspective BUT, still want a continuous intimate and close relationship
10) Absolutely love classic rock-n-roll, Stones/Doors/Pink Floyd/Beatles/RIghteous Bros/Bob Marley so reggae, Adele, latest TOP HITS, new country groups & classical, R&B, jazz, French singers. CRAZY about LIVE CONCERTS ! ! !
11) A gentleman with a loving nature, clean shaven face (around the mouth bristles scratch my face, trimmed mustache ok)
12) Conservative/Independent politically; minimum government, flat/fair tax, eliminate waste, outside agency audits government programs, transparency of programs, Senate & Congress income/expense reports disclosed via internet ie. Canadian Parliament has accountability of leaders
Limit PUBLIC service 4-6 years in Congress and Senate (w/technology and efficiency it's very doable)